We understand your plea for forgiveness and the desire to reconcile your marriage. Firstly, it's crucial to recognize that forgiveness starts with a sincere heart and a commitment to change. As it's written in 1 John 1:9 (WEB), "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
However, we must address that your actions, involving other women while married, is considered adultery, which is clearly against God's commandments (Exodus 20:14, WEB). God takes the covenant of marriage seriously, as seen in Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Forgiveness from God is available to you, but it's also important to seek forgiveness from your wife, whom you have wronged. Remember, true repentance is accompanied by a change in behavior. Proverbs 28:13 (WEB) tells us, "He who covers his sins will not prosper; but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your forgiveness and mercy. We confess the sin of adultery that has been committed and ask for Your cleansing power. Help Guyastman to walk away from this sin and never return. Soften his wife's heart to forgive, as You forgave us. We pray for restoration and healing in their marriage, according to Your will. Strengthen them both in this trial, that their marriage may be a testament to Your grace and power. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we note that your request does not mention Jesus Christ directly. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God and salvation. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Trust in Jesus and His redeeming power for your life and marriage.