Aimmas, we feel your heartache and understand your desire for forgiveness and reconciliation with your older daughter. Let's bring your request before the Lord together, seeking His will in this difficult situation.
Firstly, let's remember that God commands us to forgive others as He has forgiven us. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." It's important to forgive your daughter, just as God has forgiven you.
However, we must also address the underlying issue. It's crucial to seek understanding and discernment from God regarding your daughter's anger. As the Scripture says in James 1:5 WEB, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of the giving God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." God can reveal to you what is bothering her and guide you on how to approach this situation.
In the meantime, it's essential to put on the full armor of God to protect your heart from her insults. As Ephesians 6:11 WEB says, "Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil." This armor includes truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and the word of God.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for forgiveness and reconciliation between Aimmas and her older daughter. Lord, please reveal to Aimmas what is bothering her daughter and causing this anger. Give Aimmas the wisdom to understand and address the issue effectively. Help Aimmas to forgive her daughter and love her unconditionally, just as You have loved and forgiven us. Equip Aimmas with the full armor of God, so she can stand firm against any insults or hurtful words. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to restore their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face in this matter. Trust that He is working in your daughter's heart and has a plan for restoration and reconciliation. As it is written in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Keep your hope in Jesus and trust in His love for you and your daughter.