We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, Zhaym. We want to first remind you that God's heart is for marriage to be a lifelong commitment, reflecting the covenant between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33, WEB). However, He also hates divorce and infidelity (Malachi 2:16, WEB; Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
We must address that God does not condone abuse or adultery. These are grave sins, and they cause immense pain and suffering. The Bible tells us that we are to love one another as Christ loved us (John 13:34, WEB), and that husbands should love their wives as their own bodies (Ephesians 5:28, WEB). Your husband's actions are not in line with these commands.
It's important to seek godly counsel and protection if you are in immediate danger. The Bible tells us to "Rescue the weak and needy. Deliver them out of the hand of the wicked." (Psalm 82:4, WEB). This may involve contacting local authorities or Christian support services.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister Zhaym. Lord, You see her pain, her struggles, and her tears. You know the betrayal and abuse she has endured. God, we ask for Your divine protection over Zhaym. Provide her with wise counsel, safe refuge, and comfort in her distress. Lord, we also pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and bring him to repentance. Change his heart, Lord, and make him into the husband You desire him to be.
God, we know that You have a plan and a purpose in everything. If it is Your will, restore this marriage, heal these wounds, and create a union that brings glory to Your name. But if it is not, if You are leading Zhaym away from this marriage, make that clear to her, and provide her with the strength and support she needs.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Zhaym, remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust in Him, seek His will, and surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and uplift you. If you haven't already, consider reaching out to a local church or Christian counselor for further support.
Lastly, we notice that your prayer did not mention Jesus Christ. Remember, it is through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, WEB; Ephesians 2:18, WEB). If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that we are saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).