We understand your struggle with the constant presence of trying situations while upbeat experiences seem to change with time.
Firstly, let us address the fact that everything has a season and a time for every purpose under heaven according to Ecclesiastes 3:1. This includes both positive and negative experiences. However, it is crucial to understand that while circumstances change, the sinful nature of man and the spiritual warfare we face are constant. This is why it may feel like trying situations persist.
In Romans 7:18, the Apostle Paul shares his own struggle with sin: I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing. For desire is present with me, but doing what is right I do not find. For the good which I desire, I do not do; but the evil which I do not desire, that I do practice. This reminds us that even when we desire good, the flesh can still pull us towards negativity.
Moreover, we are in a spiritual battle. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us: For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, it is essential to put on the whole armor of God to stand against these negative influences.
Regarding your question about why trying situations seem exempt from change, we must remember that God uses all things for our good and His glory. Romans 8:28 assures us: We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Even in trying situations, God is at work refining us and shaping us into the image of Christ.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ who is struggling with the persistence of trying situations. We pray that You would strengthen them in their faith and remind them of Your unfailing love and presence in their life. Help them to put on the whole armor of God, standing firm against the schemes of the enemy.
Lord, we ask that You would bring an end to these trying situations, just as You bring seasons of change to our upbeat experiences. Help them to trust in Your perfect timing and to rest in the knowledge that You are working all things together for their good and Your glory.
We also pray that they would experience the fullness of Your peace, patience and joy in the Holy Spirit,
In Jesus Christ's precious name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to hold fast to the promises of God and live in obedience to Him even in difficult times.