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Disciple of Prayer
my husband cheated me but I want to forgive him. It's very hard for me to do it on my own. i am in need of God's strength and heart. Please pray for forgiving heart to me. Thank you
for a forgiving heart
We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you are experiencing, ###, and we commend you for seeking God's help in this difficult time. The Bible tells us that forgiveness is a central part of the Christian life. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Forgiveness is not easy, especially when the offense is deep and personal. But remember, Jesus taught us to pray, "Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors." (Matthew 6:12 WEB). He also said in the next verse, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
First, let us address the sin that has occurred. Adultery is a serious sin against God and your husband has done a wicked thing. Even if you were to forgive him, his sin is ultimately against God Himself. It is a grievous offense. To the adulterer God says, "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." (1 Corinthians 6:9-10). Let us pray your husband is convicted and repents. Your husband must turn from this sin and be cleansed by the blood of Christ, and he must be committed to staying pure from now on. You must insist on this because a marriage cannot thrive when adultery is tolerated.
Forgiveness does not mean what he did is now okay. Forgiveness does not mean you should immediately act as if nothing happened or immediately trust him. Forgiveness is releasing the anger and resentment and leaving justice to God. God promises to vindicate you in His timing. "Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will bless you for it." (1 Peter 3:9). Reconciliation is a completely separate issue from forgiveness. Reconciliation means you interact with him again with trust and authenticity. This will take time and will require the fruits of repentance to be evident in your husband's life.
You are not alone in this struggle. God is with you, and He is eager to give you the strength and grace you need to forgive. Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up ###, who is struggling to forgive her husband after his adultery. Lord, you know the pain and hurt she is feeling, and we ask that you comfort her with your loving presence. Help her to cast all her anxieties on you, because you care for her (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).
Father, we ask that you grant ### a forgiving heart, just as you have forgiven us through Christ. Help her to let go of the bitterness and resentment, and fill her with your love and compassion. Give her the strength to forgive, even when it feels impossible. Remind her that just as she is forgiving him, you forgive us all of our sins, which are ultimately a direct offense against you. You are the offended party in our sin and in his sin against her.
We also pray for ###'s husband, that he may be convicted of his sin and repent. We pray that he would be cleansed by the blood of Jesus and commit to staying pure. We pray that he will bear the fruits of repentance in his life and truly turn from his sin.
Finally, we pray for their marriage, that it would be restored and strengthened, built on the foundation of your love and faithfulness. We pray that they would seek you together, and that their marriage would be a testimony to your grace and redemption. We pray for all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who is our rock, our redeemer, and our righteousness. We pray for all of this acknowledging that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Stand on the word of God and trust that he has forgiven you, and he will provide all the strength that you need to forgive your husband.
Forgiveness is not easy, especially when the offense is deep and personal. But remember, Jesus taught us to pray, "Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors." (Matthew 6:12 WEB). He also said in the next verse, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
First, let us address the sin that has occurred. Adultery is a serious sin against God and your husband has done a wicked thing. Even if you were to forgive him, his sin is ultimately against God Himself. It is a grievous offense. To the adulterer God says, "Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." (1 Corinthians 6:9-10). Let us pray your husband is convicted and repents. Your husband must turn from this sin and be cleansed by the blood of Christ, and he must be committed to staying pure from now on. You must insist on this because a marriage cannot thrive when adultery is tolerated.
Forgiveness does not mean what he did is now okay. Forgiveness does not mean you should immediately act as if nothing happened or immediately trust him. Forgiveness is releasing the anger and resentment and leaving justice to God. God promises to vindicate you in His timing. "Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will bless you for it." (1 Peter 3:9). Reconciliation is a completely separate issue from forgiveness. Reconciliation means you interact with him again with trust and authenticity. This will take time and will require the fruits of repentance to be evident in your husband's life.
You are not alone in this struggle. God is with you, and He is eager to give you the strength and grace you need to forgive. Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up ###, who is struggling to forgive her husband after his adultery. Lord, you know the pain and hurt she is feeling, and we ask that you comfort her with your loving presence. Help her to cast all her anxieties on you, because you care for her (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).
Father, we ask that you grant ### a forgiving heart, just as you have forgiven us through Christ. Help her to let go of the bitterness and resentment, and fill her with your love and compassion. Give her the strength to forgive, even when it feels impossible. Remind her that just as she is forgiving him, you forgive us all of our sins, which are ultimately a direct offense against you. You are the offended party in our sin and in his sin against her.
We also pray for ###'s husband, that he may be convicted of his sin and repent. We pray that he would be cleansed by the blood of Jesus and commit to staying pure. We pray that he will bear the fruits of repentance in his life and truly turn from his sin.
Finally, we pray for their marriage, that it would be restored and strengthened, built on the foundation of your love and faithfulness. We pray that they would seek you together, and that their marriage would be a testimony to your grace and redemption. We pray for all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who is our rock, our redeemer, and our righteousness. We pray for all of this acknowledging that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Stand on the word of God and trust that he has forgiven you, and he will provide all the strength that you need to forgive your husband.
We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this tough path of forgiveness. We understand the struggle is real, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Remember, Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). He's ready to carry this burden with you.
Forgiveness isn't about minimizing what happened. It's about letting go of the bitterness that's weighing you down. It's about trusting that God sees your pain and will make all things right in His time. As it's written, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord" (Romans 12:19).
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord,
We come before you today, lifting up our sister. Lord, you see her pain, her struggle to forgive. Comfort her, Lord. Fill her with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to let go of the hurt and anger, and fill her with your love.
Lord, we pray for her husband. Convict him, Lord. Bring him to repentance. Cleanse him with your blood, and help him to turn away from this sin. Help him to be the husband you've called him to be.
Lord, we pray for their marriage. Restore it, Lord. Make it a testimony of your grace and redemption. Help them to seek you together, to build their marriage on your love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
You're not alone. We're here with you, praying for you, believing with you. Trust in God's timing, and trust that He will give you the strength to forgive. Be strong, and trust in the love of your Heavenly Father.
Forgiveness isn't about minimizing what happened. It's about letting go of the bitterness that's weighing you down. It's about trusting that God sees your pain and will make all things right in His time. As it's written, "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord" (Romans 12:19).
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord,
We come before you today, lifting up our sister. Lord, you see her pain, her struggle to forgive. Comfort her, Lord. Fill her with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to let go of the hurt and anger, and fill her with your love.
Lord, we pray for her husband. Convict him, Lord. Bring him to repentance. Cleanse him with your blood, and help him to turn away from this sin. Help him to be the husband you've called him to be.
Lord, we pray for their marriage. Restore it, Lord. Make it a testimony of your grace and redemption. Help them to seek you together, to build their marriage on your love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
You're not alone. We're here with you, praying for you, believing with you. Trust in God's timing, and trust that He will give you the strength to forgive. Be strong, and trust in the love of your Heavenly Father.
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
usha rani
Beloved of All
I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray for you and your marriage. We are honored that you invited us to stand in agreement with you in this journey towards forgiveness.
If you have felt God's strength and been able to forgive, we would love for you to share your praise report with us all. Your testimony could encourage others who are facing similar challenges. If, however, you are still struggling, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue praying for you, asking God to soften your heart, and provide the strength you need.
We are reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." We pray that God would enable you to forgive, not just for your husband's sake, but for your own spiritual well-being as well.
May God bless you as you continue to seek Him. We are praying for your husband as well, that he would turn away from his sin and be faithful to you. We are trusting God for a full restoration of your marriage. We are standing with you in prayer, asking for God's will and supernatural intervention in your life.
Thank you for your courage in sharing your struggle with us. It is our privilege to pray for your need. May God grant you a forgiving heart, His strength and wisdom as you navigate this challenging time. We are trusting the Lord for a miracle in your marriage. We are continuing to pray in Jesus Name.
If you have felt God's strength and been able to forgive, we would love for you to share your praise report with us all. Your testimony could encourage others who are facing similar challenges. If, however, you are still struggling, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue praying for you, asking God to soften your heart, and provide the strength you need.
We are reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." We pray that God would enable you to forgive, not just for your husband's sake, but for your own spiritual well-being as well.
May God bless you as you continue to seek Him. We are praying for your husband as well, that he would turn away from his sin and be faithful to you. We are trusting God for a full restoration of your marriage. We are standing with you in prayer, asking for God's will and supernatural intervention in your life.
Thank you for your courage in sharing your struggle with us. It is our privilege to pray for your need. May God grant you a forgiving heart, His strength and wisdom as you navigate this challenging time. We are trusting the Lord for a miracle in your marriage. We are continuing to pray in Jesus Name.
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