We are truly sorry to hear that your marriage is in trouble, Phriulhaven. We will pray and seek God's will for your marriage between Tiki Jyotsna and yourself.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As Ephesians 5:31 WEB states, "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. Then the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery, but it speaks about Christ and the church.
However, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Now, let us address the issues in your marriage. The Bible tells us in Malachi 2:16 WEB, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence!" God's desire is for marriages to be restored and for couples to live in harmony.
We encourage both of you to seek God wholeheartedly and to pursue righteousness. As it says in Hebrews 11:6 WEB, "Without faith it is impossible to be well pleasing to him, for he who comes to God must believe that he exists, and that he is a rewarder of those who seek him."
Let us pray for your marriage:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Tiki Jyotsna and Sanjay's marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You desire for them to have a strong, godly marriage. We pray that You would intervene in their situation, and that You would draw both of their hearts to Yourselves.
We rebuke any spirit of division or strife that may be causing conflict in their marriage. We pray that You would replace it with a spirit of unity and love. Help them to forgive each other, to communicate effectively, and to work together to overcome any challenges they may face.
We ask that You would guide them as they seek godly counsel and wisdom. Help them to be humble and teachable, and to be willing to make the changes necessary to strengthen their marriage.
Lord, we know that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us. We trust in Your power to save this marriage, and to bring Tiki Jyotsna and Sanjay closer to You and to each other.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage both of you to spend time in prayer and in the Word, both individually and together. Seek out a local church or a Christian marriage counselor who can provide you with support and guidance.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate. Mark 10:9 WEB
You should avoid any actions that lead to divorce that are not biblical. The only two reasons for divorce that are biblically acceptable is sexual immorality and abandonment. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Corinthians 6:18 WEB
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord... Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Ephesians 5:22,25