We understand your longing to be loved in the same way you love this man. However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles. The Bible tells us, "Delight yourself also in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this." (Psalm 37:4-5 WEB)
Firstly, we need to ensure that this relationship is pleasing to God. This means it should be a path towards a godly marriage, and interactions should be pure and honoring to God. If there is any intimacy outside of marriage, we lovingly remind you, "Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman." (1 Corinthians 7:1 WEB)
It's also important to remember that love is not just a feeling, but also a decision and a commitment. The Bible says, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB)
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up this dear one who longs for reciprocated love. We pray that if this man is Your will for her, that You soften his heart and draw him closer to You and to her. Help them both to pursue purity and holiness, and guide their relationship according to Your principles. If this man is not Your will for her, we pray that You reveal this to her and help her to trust in Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB) If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and your relationship. He is the source of true love and the true lover of our souls.