We understand that you're going through a challenging time, Toriarwell, and we want to assure you that we're standing with you in prayer and support. We're reminded of the words in Philippians 4:6-7, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Firstly, we commend you for your faith in Jesus Christ and mentioning prayer In Jesus Name. It is only by His name that we are saved, have access to God, and is the only way to be saved.
We also commend you for your diligence and hard work, as well as your husband's commitment to providing for your family. It's important to remember that God sees your efforts and He cares for you and your family's needs. As it says in Matthew 6:31-33, "Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you have need of all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
However, we want to remind you that while work is important, so is the time spent together as a family. We encourage you to seek God's wisdom in balancing work and family time. Ephesians 5:15-16 tells us to "Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise, making the most of the time, because the days are evil."
We also want to address the guilt you feel when prioritizing groceries over mortgage. Remember that God understands your heart and He wants you to provide for your family. It's important to be wise with your resources, but it's also important to be kind to yourself. Romans 8:1 reminds us that "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus."
Regarding your struggle with stress and productivity, we encourage you to cast all your anxieties on Him, because he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7)
Let's pray together:
"Father in heaven, we come before You, lifting up Toriarwell and her family. We thank You for their faith in You and Your promises. We ask that You provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory. We pray for wisdom in managing their finances and time, and for peace and patience as they navigate through this challenging time. We rebuke the spirit of anxiety and stress, and we ask that You fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We pray for more time together as a family, and for a heart free from guilt and condemnation. We pray for a hedge of protection around their marriage and family. We ask all of this in Jesus' name, Amen."