Fight with my GF because GF didn't listen to me. She doesn't respect my opinion

[Anypotaktephele]

I'm quite sad because I had a fight with my GF. We aren't talking for some days. She doesn't listen to me always. I feel like nobody loves me for who I'm. Everyone loves me in a transactional sort of love. I wish if my GF or someone else loved me for who I am. I feel like if I'm ill or if I lose my job or if I don't have money, my romantic interests(past to present) will leave me. I wish to find a strong, powerful, consistent lover who loves me for who I'm rather than what I do for her. My marriage isn't happening since I couldn't find someone like this. I'm so afraid to marry now because I don't seem to find someone like I mentioned. Please pray for me.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your girlfriend and feeling unloved and uncertain about your future. First, we want to remind you that God loves you unconditionally, and His love is not transactional. As it says in Romans 5:8 (WEB), "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."

However, we need to address a few things in your request. First, you mentioned that you're in a relationship with your girlfriend, but you should be seeking a spouse. God is very clear in it's word that a man and woman shall marry, not live in a relationship. "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall join with his wife, and they shall be one flesh." Genesis 2:24 (WEB).

Second, you should be careful not to let fear control your life. As it says in 2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB), "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."

Regarding your girlfriend not listening to you, we encourage you to communicate openly and honestly with her. As it says in Ephesians 4:15 (WEB), "But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ." However, it is very wrong and damaging to engage in premarital sex. It is a grave sin and harmful to you and your girlfriend. If you are engaging in this behavior, you must immediately repent and ask God to forgive you. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (WEB) Fornication or sex outside marriage is clearly forbidden. How can two walk together unless they agree? Amos 3:3 (WEB) You should be looking for a wife, not a girlfriend and definitely not engaging in fornication.

We also want to remind you that it's important to pray in the name of Jesus, as it's only through Him that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we come to You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anypotaktephele. We pray that You would heal their heart and mind, and take away any fear or anxiety they have about their future. We ask for greater things than they can hope even or imagine and will ask that you will bring a wife to be help meet to Anypotaktephele. We pray that You would give your Grace and enable him to end his sinful behavior and illicit relationship with his girlfriend. We also pray that you will grant him the Grace to be worthy of his calling in Christ Jesus. We pray that You would guide their steps and lead them to a godly wife who loves and respects them unconditionally. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's tough when we feel unheard and unloved, but remember, God sees you, He knows your heart, and He loves you just as you are. In Mark 12:30-31, Jesus tells us to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves. It's in these relationships that we find our true worth and identity.

We understand that communication can be challenging, but it's crucial in any relationship. In Ephesians 4:15, we're encouraged to speak the truth in love. Maybe it's time to have an open, honest conversation with your girlfriend about how you're feeling. Remember, it's not about winning an argument, but about understanding and being understood.

We also want to remind you that God has a plan for you. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our friend. We ask that You would wrap Your loving arms around them, comforting them in their time of need. Help them to feel Your love, even when it seems they can't feel it from those around them. Give them the courage to communicate openly and honestly, and guide their conversations. Lord, we also ask that You would bring the right person into their life, someone who will love and respect them as You do. We trust in Your perfect timing and plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Repenteth.com]

I'm quite sad because I had a fight with my GF. We aren't talking for some days. She doesn't listen to me always. I feel like nobody loves me for who I'm. Everyone loves me in a transactional sort of love. I wish if my GF or someone else loved me for who I am. I feel like if I'm ill or if I lose my job or if I don't have money, my romantic interests(past to present) will leave me. I wish to find a strong, powerful, consistent lover who loves me for who I'm rather than what I do for her. My marriage isn't happening since I couldn't find someone like this. I'm so afraid to marry now because I don't seem to find someone like I mentioned. Please pray for me.

Lord God loves you and in Jesus, all the fullness is restored.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[flora]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, and we are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. We hope that you have found some resolution and comfort in the past few days. If you and your girlfriend have reconciled and she has started to listen and value your opinions, we would love for you to share that news so we can all praise God together. If the situation remains unchanged or if you're still feeling unloved or anxious about the future, please don't hesitate to share that with us as well. We want to continue praying for you, asking God to bring healing, understanding, and love into your life. We pray that God will guide you to someone who loves you unconditionally, just as He does. Please know that we are here for you, walking alongside you in prayer. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. In Jesus Name.