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I’ve lost everything. Though my family and loved ones are alive, we have always been and felt estranged from each other with lots of betrayal. I have felt alone this entire time. I receive nightmares of joining the military and I believe it goes against my heart, but no other job has felt right or accepted me. I don’t believe I have found any sanctity in the potential of marriage or serving purpose there. I don’t have a desire to have or raise kids. I looked into joining any nunnery but that also hasn’t worked out either. I am feeling confused on what to do or who I am to become. Suicide is not an option. But I really can’t think of what to do with myself. I couldn’t even build a successful business cleaning homes or doing yard work, because I don’t have a car. I don’t have anyone around me to help me. I am alone. I beg and ask for your prayers, I pray daily, but I feel like I need to know there is more caring for me outside of myself to perhaps restore my belief in myself despite my faith in God being incredibly strong. I don’t know what to do with these feelings.
 
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We are truly heartbroken to hear about the profound sense of loss, estrangement, and confusion you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that your life is precious and that God has a purpose for you. It is important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid, but they do not define your worth or your future.

In times of despair, remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB says, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit.

Regarding your family situations and feelings of betrayal, we encourage you to forgive, even if it feels difficult. Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Forgiveness does not mean what happened is acceptable, it means letting go of the bitterness and leaving justice to God.

Your struggles with finding a suitable career and feelings of isolation are also important to address. God has gifted each of us uniquely, and He has a plan for you. Continue to seek Him and trust that He will guide you. Romans 8:28 WEB says, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

Concerning marriage and family, it is okay to feel uncertain. We will pray that God reveals His will for you in this area. It is important to seek God's face concerning marriage and family. However, we want to encourage you with 1 Corinthians 7:32-34, But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband.

Regarding your thoughts on joining a nunnery, as believers, we are all called to a life of service and holiness, whether single or married. It is important to remember that our primary calling is to follow Jesus and share His love with others.

We noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister who feels lost, alone, and confused. We pray that You will surround her with Your love and remind her of her worth and purpose in You.

Grant her the strength to forgive those who have hurt her, and heal her from the pain of betrayal. Guide her to the right career path, and if it is Your will, provide her with a godly spouse and bless her with a family. Give her wisdom and clarity about her future, and help her to find a community of believers who will support and encourage her.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray that You will fill her with Your peace and give her a renewed sense of hope and purpose. Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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We're here for you, dear friend. We understand that life can feel overwhelming and confusing at times, and it's okay to not have all the answers. We want you to know that you're not alone in your struggles, and we're standing with you in prayer.

We're sorry to hear about the estrangement in your family and the feelings of betrayal. It's important to remember that God is always with you, even in the darkest times. He sees your pain and He cares. As Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Let's trust in His healing power.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will for your life. He has a purpose and a plan for you, and He will guide you step by step. Remember, it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. God is patient, and He's walking with you every step of the way.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up our friend who feels lost and alone. We ask that You would wrap Your loving arms around them and remind them of their worth and purpose in You. Give them clarity and wisdom about their future, and help them to find a community of believers who will support and encourage them.

We also pray for healing in their family relationships. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and bring restoration where it's possible. Guide them in their career path, and if it's Your will, bless them with a godly spouse and a family.

Fill them with Your peace, Lord. Give them a renewed sense of hope and purpose. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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We are truly heartbroken to hear about the profound sense of loss, estrangement, and confusion you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that your life is precious and that God has a purpose for you. It is important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid, but they do not define your worth or your future.

In times of despair, remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB says, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit.

Regarding your family situations and feelings of betrayal, we encourage you to forgive, even if it feels difficult. Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Forgiveness does not mean what happened is acceptable, it means letting go of the bitterness and leaving justice to God.

Your struggles with finding a suitable career and feelings of isolation are also important to address. God has gifted each of us uniquely, and He has a plan for you. Continue to seek Him and trust that He will guide you. Romans 8:28 WEB says, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

Concerning marriage and family, it is okay to feel uncertain. We will pray that God reveals His will for you in this area. It is important to seek God's face concerning marriage and family. However, we want to encourage you with 1 Corinthians 7:32-34, But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband.

Regarding your thoughts on joining a nunnery, as believers, we are all called to a life of service and holiness, whether single or married. It is important to remember that our primary calling is to follow Jesus and share His love with others.

We noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister who feels lost, alone, and confused. We pray that You will surround her with Your love and remind her of her worth and purpose in You.

Grant her the strength to forgive those who have hurt her, and heal her from the pain of betrayal. Guide her to the right career path, and if it is Your will, provide her with a godly spouse and bless her with a family. Give her wisdom and clarity about her future, and help her to find a community of believers who will support and encourage her.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray that You will fill her with Your peace and give her a renewed sense of hope and purpose. Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

I didn’t use Jesus Christ's name because I hear the name YAHWEH.
 
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We're here for you, dear friend. We understand that life can feel overwhelming and confusing at times, and it's okay to not have all the answers. We want you to know that you're not alone in your struggles, and we're standing with you in prayer.

We're sorry to hear about the estrangement in your family and the feelings of betrayal. It's important to remember that God is always with you, even in the darkest times. He sees your pain and He cares. As Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Let's trust in His healing power.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will for your life. He has a purpose and a plan for you, and He will guide you step by step. Remember, it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. God is patient, and He's walking with you every step of the way.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up our friend who feels lost and alone. We ask that You would wrap Your loving arms around them and remind them of their worth and purpose in You. Give them clarity and wisdom about their future, and help them to find a community of believers who will support and encourage them.

We also pray for healing in their family relationships. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and bring restoration where it's possible. Guide them in their career path, and if it's Your will, bless them with a godly spouse and a family.

Fill them with Your peace, Lord. Give them a renewed sense of hope and purpose. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Thank you!! And I rebuke all evil spiritual, witchcraft, or verbal/thought attacks against me emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually. :) amen! Praise the lord YAHWEH!!
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are honored that you have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are standing in agreement with you, believing that God has a purpose and a plan for you.

If you have seen any glimmers of hope or encountered any blessings since your last post, we would be delighted to hear about them. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are feeling lost or alone, just as you have been feeling lately.

If, however, it feels like your prayers have gone unanswered, we want to assure you that God is always at work, even when we can't see it. Whatever you're going through, please don't feel like you have to face it alone. We urge you to share your struggles openly. Lean on us; we are here to help carry your burdens in prayer.

We are praying fervently for God's guidance and clarity in your life. We ask that He would surround you with caring and supportive people, and that He would open doors for new opportunities. We pray that He would heal the brokenness in your family relationships, and bring unity and love between you all. We are also praying for His protection over your thoughts and dreams, and for Him to grant you a sense of purpose and direction.

May the Lord bless you richly as you continue to seek Him. We are faithfully standing with you in this journey, trusting that God will restore your hope and joy. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Please take heart in the words of Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You are not alone, and you are deeply cared for by both our heavenly Father and your fellow believers here.
 
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