My former handyman friend who i know since 2013
has been acting very out of character lately & it upsets & frightens me
i sometimes would hire him to do errands for me over the years of which i was soo grateful too..
& he always tried to be helpful & he also became my friend as well...
But for many many months now he is not reliable or stable
& as my senior citizen friend said he seems very very desperate for money
Felix is in and out of steady employment & he has 2 children & a girl friend
so i try to bless him financially very kindly & generously so he can help
his family out even when he does just the littlest of things for me...
He will use what i pay him to buy groceries or do the laundry
for his whole family and especially it would help him towards paying his monthly
cell phone bill and when his girl friend had a car for gas fill up's
He also went thru Hurricane Sandy & i promised The Lord i would help
those who suffered thru that natural disaster as unto Him any way
that i could if it was with-in my power to do so...that was how we got to know each other here locally too...
Saturday he was calling me every hour and i had no handyman work
for him to do and two of my friends have advised me that he may now
be doing drugs and needed the spending money for A Fix To Get High...or perhaps he is now drinking... ( he does not smoke )
i do not want any part of that nor would i want to contribute to that...
Felix loves the Lord and tries his best but last week when he called
me on the phone and i asked him to please just pray for me
first he prayed to Jesus and then he prayed in fluid Arabic Farsi to Allah
HE HAS NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE EVER
I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED
when i asked Felix about that strange prayer a few days later
he said to me that he went to school for that language and he was taught to speak
fluent Farsi / Arabic... I WAS SHOCKED...as he is not very educated...
and this is the first time since 2013 he ever told me this....
my sister in Christ who i mentor and minister to said to me
Andrea...Felix has to choose which God he is going to serve...
i assume he was once maybe a practicing Muslim and i want to ask him about this however he is either way too nervous or seems to be too upset
to speak to me like we used to...
it got soo bad with constant phone calls
on Saturday that i was going to block his phone number
temporarily...until he could calm down...
i need wisdom as to how to make the right decision regarding him
i want to help him if he is in trouble and / or now taking drugs and i also
am deeply concerned about his current walk with The Lord but i am too
stressed out right now to deal with any of this as i i would like to and as he would need from a volunteer minister to others
which i what i used to do soo much more
but can't right now very much...
i would like to refer Felix to Pastor Raul if he will let me
and to his church if would be willing to visit a service some Sunday
if Pastor Raul is holding his services in person again as he just had surgery
for a hernia and also he was on vacation in Puerto Rico before he had
his surgery recently and i do not know if his church was cancelled temporarily
because of all of that...
There is also A Pastor Hernandez
who could help Felix as well perhaps
who also has a church here locally one
town away...
i do not want to abandon Felix but i had to stop hiring him
as a handyman for small errands because of my bad back
for a very very long time now because he was no longer reliable or dependable and seemed to be all over the place and not stable at all
He simply wanted to do very little & then quickly get paid for it...and then leave...
i feel terrible about this whole situation and i am very worried about Felix
My senior citizen friend asked me to stay away from him for my safety right now
as he does not trust him any more as someone safe to around which is soo sad...
Both my senior citizen friend and myself have tried to help him soo much to
find steady full time employment locally...
we have tried to help him as his friend
in many many ways too but lately he is just not himself and he is always
on edge or upset or very frustrated & angry or anxious or in depression & despair...
Felix is 60 years old but looks soo much younger and is very healthy physically
but psychologically and emotional he is not doing well at all
His family situation / living situation is not good either right now
PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO GET THE HELP THAT HE NEEDS
AND FOR WISDOM FOR ME AS TO HOW TO HANDLE THIS PROBLEM
I SIMPLY WANT TO DO WHAT THE LORD ADVISES ME TO DO
AND RIGHT NOW I AM NOT IN A POSITION TO TRULY HELP HIM
IN ANY WAY AT ALL...
I ASKED PASTOR RAUL AWHILE AGO TO REFER ME TO A HANDYMAN
AND HE KNOWS SOMEONE FROM HIS CHURCH BUT HE ONLY SPEAKS
SPANISH AND I DO NOT SO THAT AS A PROBLEM...
PASTOR RAUL IS HOWEVER BI-LIGUAL
I AM VERY CONCERNED ABOUT THIS TONIGHT.
THIS HAS BEEN WEIGHING ON MY MIND FOR MANY MONTHS NOW
BUT THIS SATURDAY WAS THE MOST UPSETTING TO ME OF ALL
FELIX HAS NEVER ACTED SOO STRANGELY BEFORE WITH ME...
I ASK YOU FATHER FOR YOUR DIVINE WISDOM NOW IN JESUS'S NAME
AS TO WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO REGARDING MY FRIEND
AND FORMER HANDYMAN AS YOU KNOW BEST OF ALL...
THANK-YOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR PRAYERS
I WOULD FEEL VERY BAD FOR OUR FRIENDSHIP TO END
AS IT IS HE IS NO LONGER A HANDYMAN TO ME AND I AM
TRYING TO REPLACE HIM WITH THE LORD'S PROVISION AND HELP
HOLY SPIRIT PLEASE TAKE AWAY ALL CONFUSION FROM MY MIND
AND MAY WHAT IS HIDDEN IN DARKNESS
YOU LORD GOD NOW BRING IT ALL TO THE LIGHT SO I KNOW THE TRUTH
THAT YOUR TRUTH MAY SET ME FREE AT LAST...
AND CONFIRM TO ME THE RIGHT DECISION TO MAKE PLEASE FOR NOW
I DO NOT WANT TO HURT OR ABANDON FELIX
I DESIRE TO HELP HIM AS HE WAS ONCE A VERY KIND FRIEND TO ME
BUT HE IS NOT HIMSELF ANY MORE & NOT THE GREAT LOCAL HANDYMAN
THAT I ONCE KNEW AND COULD HIRE FOR MUCH NEEDED HELP...
HE IS NO LONGER RELIABLE OR DEPENDABLE AND CAN'T SEEM TO DO MUCH AT ALL THESE DAYS...
I BELIEVE HE IS GOING THRU A GREAT CRISIS RIGHT NOW...
I SINCERELY HOPE HE IS NOT HAVING A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN
OR IS ON DRUGS OR PERHAPS MAYBE BACK ON DRUGS OR IN SOME OTHER
TROUBLE THAT ONLY YOU GOD WOULD KNOW ABOUT...
I TRULY CARE AND I HAVE A HEART TO HELP IF I CAN...
DEAR FATHER GOD PLEASE GIVE ME DISCERNMENT WITH ALL OF THIS IN JESUS'S NAME AND REVEAL AND CONFIRM THE TRUTH TO ME
I AM VERY CONCERNED FOR MY FRIEND
PLEASE WORK IN HIS LIFE AND HELP AND HEAL HIM AND
GET HIM TURNED AROUND BACK TO WHAT HE ONCE WAS
AGAIN I ASK THIS ALL IN JESUS'S NAME
AMEN AND AMEN...DO A MIRACLE PLEASE AND QUICKLY TOO FOR FELIX'S SAKE...
AND
THANK-YOU TO EVERYONE WHO PRAYS FOR FELIX TONIGHT
I KNOW YOUR REWARD IS GREAT FROM THE LORD !...XOXOX...!
THANK-YOU AGAIN SOO MUCH
AMEN AND AMEN...
has been acting very out of character lately & it upsets & frightens me
i sometimes would hire him to do errands for me over the years of which i was soo grateful too..
& he always tried to be helpful & he also became my friend as well...
But for many many months now he is not reliable or stable
& as my senior citizen friend said he seems very very desperate for money
Felix is in and out of steady employment & he has 2 children & a girl friend
so i try to bless him financially very kindly & generously so he can help
his family out even when he does just the littlest of things for me...
He will use what i pay him to buy groceries or do the laundry
for his whole family and especially it would help him towards paying his monthly
cell phone bill and when his girl friend had a car for gas fill up's
He also went thru Hurricane Sandy & i promised The Lord i would help
those who suffered thru that natural disaster as unto Him any way
that i could if it was with-in my power to do so...that was how we got to know each other here locally too...
Saturday he was calling me every hour and i had no handyman work
for him to do and two of my friends have advised me that he may now
be doing drugs and needed the spending money for A Fix To Get High...or perhaps he is now drinking... ( he does not smoke )
i do not want any part of that nor would i want to contribute to that...
Felix loves the Lord and tries his best but last week when he called
me on the phone and i asked him to please just pray for me
first he prayed to Jesus and then he prayed in fluid Arabic Farsi to Allah
HE HAS NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE EVER
I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED
when i asked Felix about that strange prayer a few days later
he said to me that he went to school for that language and he was taught to speak
fluent Farsi / Arabic... I WAS SHOCKED...as he is not very educated...
and this is the first time since 2013 he ever told me this....
my sister in Christ who i mentor and minister to said to me
Andrea...Felix has to choose which God he is going to serve...
i assume he was once maybe a practicing Muslim and i want to ask him about this however he is either way too nervous or seems to be too upset
to speak to me like we used to...
it got soo bad with constant phone calls
on Saturday that i was going to block his phone number
temporarily...until he could calm down...
i need wisdom as to how to make the right decision regarding him
i want to help him if he is in trouble and / or now taking drugs and i also
am deeply concerned about his current walk with The Lord but i am too
stressed out right now to deal with any of this as i i would like to and as he would need from a volunteer minister to others
which i what i used to do soo much more
but can't right now very much...
i would like to refer Felix to Pastor Raul if he will let me
and to his church if would be willing to visit a service some Sunday
if Pastor Raul is holding his services in person again as he just had surgery
for a hernia and also he was on vacation in Puerto Rico before he had
his surgery recently and i do not know if his church was cancelled temporarily
because of all of that...
There is also A Pastor Hernandez
who could help Felix as well perhaps
who also has a church here locally one
town away...
i do not want to abandon Felix but i had to stop hiring him
as a handyman for small errands because of my bad back
for a very very long time now because he was no longer reliable or dependable and seemed to be all over the place and not stable at all
He simply wanted to do very little & then quickly get paid for it...and then leave...
i feel terrible about this whole situation and i am very worried about Felix
My senior citizen friend asked me to stay away from him for my safety right now
as he does not trust him any more as someone safe to around which is soo sad...
Both my senior citizen friend and myself have tried to help him soo much to
find steady full time employment locally...
we have tried to help him as his friend
in many many ways too but lately he is just not himself and he is always
on edge or upset or very frustrated & angry or anxious or in depression & despair...
Felix is 60 years old but looks soo much younger and is very healthy physically
but psychologically and emotional he is not doing well at all
His family situation / living situation is not good either right now
PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO GET THE HELP THAT HE NEEDS
AND FOR WISDOM FOR ME AS TO HOW TO HANDLE THIS PROBLEM
I SIMPLY WANT TO DO WHAT THE LORD ADVISES ME TO DO
AND RIGHT NOW I AM NOT IN A POSITION TO TRULY HELP HIM
IN ANY WAY AT ALL...
I ASKED PASTOR RAUL AWHILE AGO TO REFER ME TO A HANDYMAN
AND HE KNOWS SOMEONE FROM HIS CHURCH BUT HE ONLY SPEAKS
SPANISH AND I DO NOT SO THAT AS A PROBLEM...
PASTOR RAUL IS HOWEVER BI-LIGUAL
I AM VERY CONCERNED ABOUT THIS TONIGHT.
THIS HAS BEEN WEIGHING ON MY MIND FOR MANY MONTHS NOW
BUT THIS SATURDAY WAS THE MOST UPSETTING TO ME OF ALL
FELIX HAS NEVER ACTED SOO STRANGELY BEFORE WITH ME...
I ASK YOU FATHER FOR YOUR DIVINE WISDOM NOW IN JESUS'S NAME
AS TO WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO REGARDING MY FRIEND
AND FORMER HANDYMAN AS YOU KNOW BEST OF ALL...
THANK-YOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR PRAYERS
I WOULD FEEL VERY BAD FOR OUR FRIENDSHIP TO END
AS IT IS HE IS NO LONGER A HANDYMAN TO ME AND I AM
TRYING TO REPLACE HIM WITH THE LORD'S PROVISION AND HELP
HOLY SPIRIT PLEASE TAKE AWAY ALL CONFUSION FROM MY MIND
AND MAY WHAT IS HIDDEN IN DARKNESS
YOU LORD GOD NOW BRING IT ALL TO THE LIGHT SO I KNOW THE TRUTH
THAT YOUR TRUTH MAY SET ME FREE AT LAST...
AND CONFIRM TO ME THE RIGHT DECISION TO MAKE PLEASE FOR NOW
I DO NOT WANT TO HURT OR ABANDON FELIX
I DESIRE TO HELP HIM AS HE WAS ONCE A VERY KIND FRIEND TO ME
BUT HE IS NOT HIMSELF ANY MORE & NOT THE GREAT LOCAL HANDYMAN
THAT I ONCE KNEW AND COULD HIRE FOR MUCH NEEDED HELP...
HE IS NO LONGER RELIABLE OR DEPENDABLE AND CAN'T SEEM TO DO MUCH AT ALL THESE DAYS...
I BELIEVE HE IS GOING THRU A GREAT CRISIS RIGHT NOW...
I SINCERELY HOPE HE IS NOT HAVING A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN
OR IS ON DRUGS OR PERHAPS MAYBE BACK ON DRUGS OR IN SOME OTHER
TROUBLE THAT ONLY YOU GOD WOULD KNOW ABOUT...
I TRULY CARE AND I HAVE A HEART TO HELP IF I CAN...
DEAR FATHER GOD PLEASE GIVE ME DISCERNMENT WITH ALL OF THIS IN JESUS'S NAME AND REVEAL AND CONFIRM THE TRUTH TO ME
I AM VERY CONCERNED FOR MY FRIEND
PLEASE WORK IN HIS LIFE AND HELP AND HEAL HIM AND
GET HIM TURNED AROUND BACK TO WHAT HE ONCE WAS
AGAIN I ASK THIS ALL IN JESUS'S NAME
AMEN AND AMEN...DO A MIRACLE PLEASE AND QUICKLY TOO FOR FELIX'S SAKE...
AND
THANK-YOU TO EVERYONE WHO PRAYS FOR FELIX TONIGHT
I KNOW YOUR REWARD IS GREAT FROM THE LORD !...XOXOX...!
THANK-YOU AGAIN SOO MUCH
AMEN AND AMEN...
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