We understand that you're feeling anxious and hurt when someone doesn't respond to your messages. First, we want to remind you that your value and worth are not determined by another person's responses or actions. It's important to find your identity in Christ, as he loves and accepts without condition.1 John 4.10. Here be love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. WEB
In moments of anxiety, remember that God commands us not to be anxious about anything, but to present our requests to God.
Philippians 4.6 In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. WEB
It's also crucial to examine your feelings and understand that your sense of rejection may stem any number of issues. If the person you're messaging is someone you're in a courtship with, remember that communication is a two-way. Efforts to reach out to another believer who is doing the same should not cause hurt from lack of a response. If this is not the case and communication cannot be achieved, continue in prayer that Christ will guide them as you stay available to them in spirit and prayer for their also becoming available to your thoughts and messages. If your inquires for conversations are legal, moral, sober, ethical, and upright, no other Christian Believer seeking the Lord Jesus has any reason to ignore it, which may be the reason of the angst brought by the lack of response, but you need not take into personal offense or any anger and bitterness that may follow.
Forgiveness and understanding with open arms should also be offered even that you may find there was sin or a wrongful motivation on the other believers part. One does not know what the behavior of another person is or there reasons. It is very possible, there is no offense involved nor is there something wrong with the other believer in their lack of response but your self view in Christ and your desire for the other believers to be part of the conversation.
1 Peter 4.8. Above all, have intense love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins. WEB
Colossians 3.13 bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up MNBVSFDE who is feeling anxious, hurt, and rejected. We pray that You will heal their wounds and fill them with Your peace. Help them to find their identity and security in You, and not in the responses of others.[IJN]
We ask that You guide MNBVSFDE in their communication and that there be understanding and forgiveness surrounding the subject of their angst. Your Holy Word says our reply should always be seasoned with salt to reply to everyone. We pray that there be no cause for ill feelings between this Christian Believer and those you are friends with and find camaraderie.
Colossians 4:6 Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one. WEB
We pray also for the other believers involved, that we do not know but the Lord Christ, Jesus, You do. You talk to them to encourage them to be more communicative on this subject matter, and to be available for other requests if appropriate. May each platform You give all of us to be a platform for Your Holy Spirit to work on us for a furtherance of Your Kingdom and for Your glory and honor.
Guide and guide and God in all your conversations,
Lord we believe,
help our unbelief.
If there is anything else impacting these thoughts and feelings that is not Godly,
You are the righteous Judge, you are the One mediator, if the message lacks in Your character and nature, that person needs Holy Spirit conviction at Your hand to not ignore Your sovereign will for their own. Show us what it is so that we may suffer for doing what is right, if will need be and not suffer for doing what is wrong.
We thank you that it is in Jesus Name that we pray this prayer with the request,
It is only in Jesus Name that we have access to your trough and vine that we get our sustenance from.
We thank you that the Your Holy Word says we only pray to You by Jesus Christ
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. WEB
We thank you and also pray for your revelation of the saving gospel. Revelation of God to each of us on the matter. Jesus may this one know that we must believe Jesus died, buried, and was raised the third day and confess Jesus
Confess Jesus as Lord and believe in the resurrection of Jesus as Lord on your behalf.
This prayer is for all who read it and may further know You. In Jesus name,
Amen.