Andree, we hear your cry for help and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your situation. We are reminded of the words in Matthew 11:28-30 (WEB), "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."
Firstly, we commend you for coming before the Lord Jesus in your time of need. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, let's address the issues in your marriage. The Bible is clear about the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives in Ephesians 5:25-33 (WEB). Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives are to respect their husbands. It seems there may be a lack of communication and understanding between you and your wife. We encourage you to pray together and discuss the expectations and needs you both have.
We also rebuke the spirit of irritation and discord in your marriage. Colossians 3:18-19 (WEB) says, "Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." Bitterness and irritation have no place in a marriage founded on Christ's love.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up Andree and his marriage. We ask that you fill their home with your peace, joy, and love. Help them to communicate effectively and understand each other's needs. We pray that Andree will love his wife as you love the church, and that his wife will respect and honor him. Cast out the spirits of irritation, discord, and bitterness from their marriage. Give them the strength and wisdom to work through their differences and grow closer together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Andree, continue to pursue your wife with the love of Christ. Seek counseling if needed, and never stop praying for your marriage. Trust that God is working in your situation, even if you don't see the results immediately. Remain steadfast in your faith and live according to biblical principles. God bless you and your family.