Feeling hurt

[Prsuestead]

I was with my recent boyfriend for 8 months. He came in saying he was seeking marriage and children and truly made me feel like he really adored me and felt an amazing connection with me. Things started getting rocky a couple of months ago and he one time said that sometimes my less than average intelligence is hard to deal with. Then a couple of weeks ago a couple of days before my birthday he said we should go celebrate after we work out (we always work out on Sundays together) and he would take me to Black Angus. As we were working out he mentioned that he had a two for one coupon and it’s less expensive if you get it to go and we could eat it in the car and I agreed I was okay with that because for me it’s more about the quality time. He thinks all women are money hungry and I never proved myself to be that way. Anyhow since we always meet at the gym he said we could either have me follow him to Trader Joe’s to grab some waters then follow him to black angus to get the food then back to a car charging station for him to charge his electric car OR we could drop my car off at the charging station and then go in his car to grab everything and come back. I chose to drop my car off and then go in his car to each location. Well when we got to the charging station and I saw him pull into a charging port I had a lapse in brain functioning and for a second I thought maybe he was going to charge his car because he didn’t want to lose a spot since sometimes they run out so I waited a few minutes then asked him if it was charging because sometimes they don’t charge like they’re broken or something and he messaged back that since I didn’t want to get in the car he drove off. I was so hurt. Then he said he doesn’t give an f*** about birthdays and he was mad I didn’t invite him to my bday party that was all for my women’s group that I have and he never expressed being upset about it before that. Then he said maybe we should just be friends and hasn’t talked to me since and didn’t even wish me a happy birthday when the day came a couple days later. I’m so hurt that he won’t talk to me and just abruptly out of nowhere cut me off for no reason after 8 months and how at first he came in seeming so sincere and genuine about his intentions. I just wish he would talk to me. I can’t even describe how hurt I am

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing, Prsuestead. We want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance during this difficult time.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and His throne of grace. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me". And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Now, let's address the situation with your former boyfriend. It's clear that there were some significant issues in your relationship that do not align with biblical principles. The fact that he criticized your intelligence and abruptly ended the relationship without proper communication shows a lack of love, respect, and kindness which are all fruits of the Spirit as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."

Moreover, the Bible teaches us to be humble and considerate of others, as stated in Philippians 2:3-4 WEB: "Do nothing from selfishness, or from empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others". His behavior towards you did not reflect these biblical values.

It's also important to note that the goal of any romantic relationship should be marriage between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This highlights the importance of being equally yoked in faith and values.

We encourage you to seek God's will for your life and trust in Him to bring the right person into your life at the right time. Remember that God has a plan and a purpose for you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you, as promised in Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB: "Be strong and courageous. Don't be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God, he is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you".

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Prsuestead who is experiencing heartache and pain. We pray for Your comfort and peace to surround her during this time. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her, as stated in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.

We pray that You will heal her heart and help her to trust in Your perfect plan for her life. Guide her steps and bring the right godly spouse into her life at the right time. Help her to remain strong in her faith and to seek Your will in all things.

We also pray for her former boyfriend, that Your will be done in his life and that You will convict his heart and bring him to true repentance if he is not living according to Your word.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in your faith and remember that God loves you more than anyone else ever could. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths, and bring you a Christian spouse if that is His will for you.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh, dear friend, we're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's like a punch to the gut, isn't it? We're here for you, and we want to wrap our arms around you in prayer.

First, let's just say it - what he did was not okay. It's like he was driving a car and suddenly just... pulled over and left you on the side of the road. That's not how love acts. Love is patient, kind, not self-seeking, and it's definitely not rude or abrupt (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). He didn't treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve.

But you know what? You deserve better. You deserve someone who will cherish you, respect you, and love you in a way that reflects God's love for us. And that's what we're praying for. We're asking God to heal your heart, to fill that empty space with His love and comfort. We're asking Him to guide your steps and bring the right person into your life at the right time.

And while we're at it, we're also praying for your ex. We're asking God to work in his heart, to convict him of his actions, and to bring him to true repentance if that's what's needed. We want him to understand the pain he's caused and to turn back to God's ways.

Let's keep praying together, okay? Let's trust in God's plan, even when it's hard to see. He's got you, and He's not going to let you down. You're His beloved daughter, and He's got the best in store for you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Jeulfourhaven]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Ttoriushaw]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[flora]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Dan T]

Heavenly Father, you are Jehovah Shalom, our God of Peace and we thank You for your constant companionship. We lift this person to you and request you to fill her with your Spirit of Shalom. Lord, You are the source of perfect peace, and we ask that You quiet every worry, every fear, and every anxious thought within her. We ask you to show her how beautiful she is and fill her heart with your love for her, and bring unity, joy, and blessings into her life. We ask this in Jesus’ name and ask you to allow her to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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