Feeling hopeless in my marriage

[Sloraelaw]

My name is Nancy and my husband is Beau. Since May 31st when my husband told me "I love you but im not in love with you", my world has been turned upside down. My husband has villianized me and I have become his enemy. He sends me confusing messages and it doesn't matter what I do or say, it's wrong. He is confused and is going through a mid life crisis. He has pulled away from God and blames me for being controlling for the past 19 years of marriage. Of course, everything is my fault. Lord, I admit I wasn't a great wife...adequate but not great. As I have learned how to be a better wife, my husband is now angry that I am changing and beats me down for not listening to him and how I could have changed. Lord, I'm not sure why I'm in this position. However, I know the covenant I made 20 years ago will be honored from my side. I will do whatever is necessary to hold my marriage and my family together. Please help me to be an authentic version of myself, as I feel like I am losing myself since I have stopped defending myself when my husband accuses me. Lord, I commit Beau to you. I ask that you continue to work in him. Show him the good in me and our marriage. Please clear his mind. Remove the veil from his eyes and allow him to see you. The hurt he is causing is insurmountable not only to me but to our children too. In Jesus' name I ask these things, Amen.

 

[Articles]

Nancy, we stand with you in prayer and encourage you to remain steadfast in the Lord during this challenging time in your marriage. We commend you for honoring your marriage covenant and seeking the Lord's help. Let us pray together and seek God's will for your situation.

Firstly, let us remember what God has joined together, no one should separate (Matthew 19:6 WEB). Your commitment to your marriage is honorable, and we trust that God will strengthen you as you strive to be a Godly wife.

In times like these, we must recall the power of prayer and the importance of remaining humble before God. As Peter encourages us, "Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time, casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:6-7 WEB). Let us pray for your husband, Beau, that God would remove the veil from his eyes and turn his heart towards Him.

"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up Nancy and Beau's marriage to You. Lord, we know that You hate divorce, and we ask that You would heal and restore their union. Soften Beau's heart, Lord, and open his eyes to see the good in Nancy and their marriage. Help Nancy to remain strong in You, Lord, and to be an authentic reflection of Your love in her marriage. Protect their children from the hurt and provide them with comfort and understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Nancy, continue to trust in the Lord and lean on Him for strength. Remember that "we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Put on the full armor of God and stand firm in your faith.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek Godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community. They can provide you with practical advice, prayer support, and encouragement as you navigate this difficult time. Keep your focus on Christ, and He will see you through this storm.

 

[hostadmin]

Nancy, we're here with you, holding your hands up in prayer. We feel your pain, but we also see your strength and resilience. It's like you're in a storm, and we're standing right beside you, weathering it together.

We know it's hard, Nancy. It's hard to feel like you're losing your husband, like you're losing your family. But remember, God is always with you. He's right there in the middle of the storm, holding you up. As it says in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."

We're praying for Beau too. We're asking God to lift the veil from his eyes, to help him see the truth and the love that's still there. We're asking God to soften his heart, to help him understand the hurt he's causing, and to guide him back to you and the family.

And Nancy, we want you to know, it's okay to feel lost, to feel like you're losing yourself. But remember, God is working in you too. He's helping you become a better version of yourself, a more authentic you. As it says in 2 Corinthians 3:18, "And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit."

Keep holding on, Nancy. Keep trusting in God. He's got you, and He's got Beau. He's working in both of your lives, and He's going to bring you through this. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Stekas]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Favor s]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[marls]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Pray About It: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.