We understand your emotional state, Callum, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. You've come to the Father in Jesus' name, which is the right way to approach God, as Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6, WEB).
We appreciate your honesty about your feelings for your ex-girlfriend, Tia. However, let's align our hearts with God's will and Word. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and pursue holiness (1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Peter 1:16). It's crucial to examine your relationship with Tia and ensure it aligns with biblical principles. If you're seeking a romantic relationship, it should be with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Moreover, you mentioned you don't think things will work out with Natalia. It's important to ensure you've conducted that relationship in a way that honors God, and if it's not leading to a godly marriage, it's wise to reassess. Remember, God's will is for us to be pure and holy, avoiding even the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22).
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Callum. Lord, you know the emotions he's feeling, the love he has for Tia, and the confusion about his relationship with Natalia. We ask for your divine guidance. Help him to align his will with yours, to walk in purity and holiness. If it's your will for him to reconcile with Tia, guide them both towards a godly union, helping them to let go of the past and start fresh, with forgiveness and love like yours. If not, give Callum the strength to move forward, trusting in your plan for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, Callum. God loves you and has a good, acceptable, and perfect will for your life (Romans 12:2). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). Keep pursuing holiness and righteousness, and God will provide the right spouse at the right time, if it's in His will for you.