Feeling alone at Christmas even with family

[Callum]

Dear Heavenly Father I come to you in the name of jesus to bring my troubles to you and lay them at your feet, well lord here we are Christmas day and I feel alone even though I have family around I've never felt more alone than I do now, I know Christmas is a time to celebrate your sons birth and to spend time with family, but because I'm single I feel alone my heart and soul just can't take it anymore, this year started of great and I found love but then I messed things up so much that I couldn't fix it and things have just gotten worse and I don't know what to do anymore, lord the other day I realised that how alone I truly am and I realised that not only will it be another Christmas without love but that it probably won't be the last, lord my mate asked me the other day if I wanted to be a dad like my brother is, of course I do but I just don't see it happening because I just can't find love and I'm on the verge of giving up I just think I can do it anymore, I hope and pray to you lord that the plan you have for me consists of me finding love and getting married and having a family but I just don't know lord and this is why I come to you in the name of our lord and saviour jesus Christ I pray Amen

 

[Articles]

Callum, we understand your feelings of loneliness, even amidst family, and we appreciate that you've come to God in the name of Jesus with your troubles. It's important to remember that Christmas is indeed a time to celebrate the birth of our Savior, and it's also a time to find comfort and strength in Him.

Firstly, we want to assure you that you are not alone. God is always with you, as He promised, "For I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5 WEB) Even in moments of deepest loneliness, His presence is constant.

We commend you for desiring marriage a godly blessing thathonors God and is a reflection of Christ's love for the church. (Ephesians 5:25-32 WEB). It is good and right to desire this. We encourage you to continue to trust God.Wait and see the good plan He has for you. Self pity is a trap and is not for the Christian.

It's also commendable that you recognize the significance of finding love. In many places we find the bible endorsing marriage and even warns against being unequally yoked.

However, we want to remind you that God's plan for you is perfect, and His timing is always right. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) Trusting in His plan includes believing that He has a purpose for your singleness at this moment God can turn any situation around regardless of your past mistakes. It is possible that a time of singleness is God's will for you right now. It is a reminder that He wants your full attention. Can you devote time with Him now with the same fervor that you desire time with a spouse? He expects us to seek Him as diligently as you are longing for a spouse.

We also want to address the feeling of hopelessness you're experiencing. Remember, God is the source of our hope. "Why are you in despair, my soul? Why are you disturbed within me? Hope in God! For I shall still praise him for the saving help of his presence." (Psalm 42:5 WEB) It is right to desire good things from the Lord. A spouse and children are both blessings from the Lord and should be sought after. But do not let the blessing become and idol for you. In times of despair, turn to Him in praise and worship, and find your hope renewed.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Callum in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord, You see his loneliness and his longing for love and a family. We ask that You comfort him with Your presence and remind him that You are always with him. Help him to find his hope and joy in You alone and not be immobilized by despair. Guide him as needed. Help him to see how to act. May Your peace live with him. Work in the heart of the one You have chosen for Callum. Draw her to you first. Make it clear to callum who she is. Lord bless her. Have her desiring marriage too. May he be a man of God and find favor with her and her family. We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

God sees your pain. He cares, and He will provide whether a spouse or working in you to make you more like His son. Embrace this journey with God trusting Him, and you will become more joyful and fulfilled in the counting of the days with our Savior.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Callum. We understand that Christmas can be a tough time when you're feeling alone, even surrounded by family. But remember, Jesus was born to be with us always, even in our loneliest moments. Let's lean into His presence together.

We know you've been feeling hopeless, like things can't get better. But we want to remind you of the promise in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God sees your pain, and He's working things out for your good, even if it's not happening as quickly as you'd like.

Let's not forget the joy of the season. Jesus came to give us life, and life abundantly (John 10:10). Let's find joy in His presence, in the love of our families, and in the anticipation of the future He has planned for us.

We're praying for you, Callum. That God would comfort you, give you hope, and guide your steps. We're believing for a future where you'll have a family to call your own, but for now, let's trust that God has you in the palm of His hand. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Elizabeth F]

I am so sorry you feel alone and pray that God will bring you a life partner.
In the meantime please try to cherish the love and companionship of your family.
I have never been married and live with my sister. She is really unwell and I am so frightened of losing her
So please don't take your family for granted

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Callum]

I am so sorry you feel alone and pray that God will bring you a life partner.
In the meantime please try to cherish the love and companionship of your family.
I have never been married and live with my sister. She is really unwell and I am so frightened of losing her
So please don't take your family for granted

Thank you so much for your kind words Elizabeth, my family and friends have been my rock this year after so much has happened, and I will never take them for granted.
I am so sorry to hear that your sister is really unwell and I pray that god will place his healing hands on her so that you both can spend many years together, my thoughts and prayers are with you both

 

[Elizabeth F]

Thank you so much for your kind words Elizabeth, my family and friends have been my rock this year after so much has happened, and I will never take them for granted.
I am so sorry to hear that your sister is really unwell and I pray that god will place his healing hands on her so that you both can spend many years together, my thoughts and prayers are with you both

Thanks so much and I didn't mean to judge you sorry.
I an also really unwell so long for my sister and I to be healed.
If God means you to be married rest assured He will bring this to pass and she will be worth waiting for!
I am so glad you have the love and support of your family.

 

[Callum]

Thanks so much and I didn't mean to judge you sorry.
I an also really unwell so long for my sister and I to be healed.
If God means you to be married rest assured He will bring this to pass and she will be worth waiting for!
I am so glad you have the love and support of your family.

Your welcome and you didn't judge me at all you helped me and I thank you, I'm sure He will and I know she will worth the wait indeed.

Let me Pray for you and your sister,
Heavenly father I come to you today in the name of jesus to lift up Elizabeth and her sister to you lord that you would place your healing hands on them both, please heal them lord from any illness they have, please continue to fill them both with your love and strength lord to continue everyday knowing that you are with them. In the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen