We are truly sorry to hear about the loss you've experienced and the emotional turmoil you're going through. It's important to remember that God is always with us, even in our darkest hours. As it says in Psalm 34:18, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Firstly, we want to address the fear of loneliness and the sense of loss you're experiencing. It's natural to feel this way, but we encourage you to find your strength and comfort in the Lord. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
Regarding the woman you love, we must remind you of the biblical principles for relationships. It's crucial to pursue relationships that align with God's will and His design for marriage between a man and a woman. If this relationship is in line with biblical principles, then trust in God's timing and plan. As it says in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
However, if this relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, we urge you to reconsider and seek God's will for your life. Remember, God's plan is always better than ours. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11, "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'"
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our brother in need. Lord, he is hurting and feeling alone, but we know that You are always with him. Comfort him in his time of need, and help him to cast all his anxieties on You, because You care for him (1 Peter 5:7). Guide his steps and help him to trust in Your timing and plan for his life. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time to the other side.