Let us bring these concerns before the Lord, seeking His will and intervention in these matters.
Firstly, we must remember that our ultimate goal is to please God and live according to His will. It is wonderful that you are seeking favor in your husband's eyes, as this is a biblical principle. Wives are called to respect their husbands, and husbands are called to love their wives, just as Christ loved the church. Be encouraged in your role as a wife, remembering the words of Proverbs 31:11-12 WEB: "The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life."
Let us pray for Vuyo, that he may find favor in Deon's eyes. We must also pray that Vuyo acts responsibly and diligently in his chores, as this is a biblical principle. Remember, "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in Sheol, where you are going." We must approach each task with a willing heart, knowing that ultimately God sees our hard work and obedience to him. Vuyo should recognize the biblical principle of Colossians 3:23
"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men," We must do our work for the Lord as Vuyo should do the same.
Concerning the conversation between Vuyo and Dewald, we pray that their communication is open and honest, and that Dewald
offers sound, godly advice. Remember the wisdom from Proverbs 27:17 WEB: " Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens his friend's countenance." May their conversation be productive and edifying. We will be praying for their faith to be strengthened by proper conversation and speech with each other.
Now, let us address the concern about truth and honesty. We pray also that Deon recognizes the truth as it has been in love freely spoken to him. It is crucial to have communication that is honest in any relationship because that desire is of God inasmuch as he desires honesty with us through believing in his Son. As the Bible says in John 8:32 "You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free." Any lie comes from the devil whether small or large so we need truth in any conversation because it will be obvious eventually.
Finally, let us remember that all these prayers we are requesting should be in the name of Jesus. In the Bible, it says in John 14:13-14 WEB: "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." So we can only approach the Father if in the name of Jesus Christ. Remember there is no other name by which we can be saved through belief in the Son. To God be the Glory.
Join us in praying for these situations,
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, seeking Your will and intervention in these matters. We pray for Vuyo, that he may find favor in Deon's eyes and that he may be diligent in his chores, as he should do his work as service to Jesus Christ. We pray for wisdom and sound advice as Vuyo talks to Dewald, as iron can sharpen iron. We pray for truth through Jesus Christ to come forth in their conversation We pray for Anonymous, that she may find favor in her husband's eyes, and that truth and honesty may prevail in their relationship. We ask for this truth to be evident through the coming forth of the holy spirit of Jesus Christ.
We keep all these things In Jesus' Name
Let it be so. Amen.