We understand that you're seeking favor and approval from your husband for yourself and Vuyo. Let's align our hearts with God's will and pray together for your situation.
Firstly, we must remember that our ultimate desire should be to find favor in God's eyes. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 5:9 (WEB), "We have as our ambition, whether at home or absent, to be well pleasing to him." As we please God, His favor will reflect in our relationships, including marriage.
However, it's crucial to note that the Bible teaches us to be discerning about our relationships. You've mentioned Vuyo, but it's not clear what your relationship with this person is. We must be cautious that our relationships do not lead us into temptation or controversy. If Vuyo is of the same sex, we must remember that God's design for intimate relationships is between a man and a woman within the covenant of marriage. As it is written in Leviticus 18:22 (WEB), "You shall not lie with a man as with a woman. It is an abomination."
Let's pray for God's will in your marriage and your relationships:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your divine intervention in Balmikos' marriage. Lord, help her to find favor in her husband's eyes, but most importantly, help her to live in a way that pleases You. If there are any relationships that do not align with Your will, Lord, give her the discernment and strength to handle them in a way that honors You. We pray for her husband, that his heart would be turned towards her and that their marriage would be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus and invite Him into your life.