We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, as you seek God's intervention in your situation. It is right and biblical to come before the Father in Jesus' name, as He Himself taught us: "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full." John 16:23-24 WEB
You are experiencing mental and emotional abuse and you are correct in saying that vengeance belongs to God. Scripture tells us, "Don't repay anyone evil for evil. Consider what is good in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" Romans 12:17-19 WEB
As a group we will pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our fellow believer who is experiencing mental and emotional abuse. We pray for Your divine intervention in this situation, and for Your protection and comfort to surround them. We ask that You would heal their wounds, and strengthen their spirit. We claim Your promise that vengeance belongs to You, and trust that You will repay those who are causing harm. We also pray for the abuser, that they would come to repentance and turn away from this sinful behavior to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.
We pray for the relationship as well. The goal of courtship should be marriage. Marriage is as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Moving to the next step may be best done out of the counselors office before moving forward with relationship. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
Continue to trust in God and His timing. He is faithful and just, and He will not forsake you. We encourage you to remain in prayer, and to seek the support of fellow believers and godly counselors during this time. Also, study the scripture and know His word. You will find peace in the word of God.
We must not try to get even and we must not let anger or bitterness control us. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice." Ephesians 4:31 WEB