We are truly sorry to hear about the difficult situation you're facing with your father's health. Let us come together in prayer and seek God's will for your father and your family.
Firstly, let us address the concern about your father's mental state when signing the DNR. It is important to trust that God knows the true intentions and desires of your father's heart. As it is written in 1 Samuel 16:7, "For man looks on the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks on the heart."
Regarding the disagreement between you and your son, we encourage you to strive for unity and understanding. In Philippians 2:2, it is written, "Make my joy full by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind." Remember, it is crucial to respect your father's wishes and the legal arrangements he has made, even when it is difficult.
As for your father's care, whether at home or in a hospital, trust that God is in control. Psalm 27:14 reminds us to "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." Hospice care aims to provide comfort and dignity, and the decision to move him should be made with careful consideration and prayer.
Let us also address the fear you feel about your father's passing. In John 14:1-3, Jesus says, "Don’t let your heart be troubled. Believe in God. Believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many homes. If it weren’t so, I would have told you. I am going to prepare a place for you. If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and will receive you to myself; that where I am, you may be there also." If your father is a believer, you can find comfort knowing that he will be with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Now, let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Chysles' father to You. We ask for Your divine wisdom and guidance in this difficult time. Help Chysles and their family make the best decisions regarding his care, and comfort their hearts with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we ask for a miracle of healing if it is Your will, but if not, we ask that You ease his pain and suffering. We trust in Your goodness and mercy.
In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.
Lastly, Chysles, we noticed that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved.