Let us come together in prayer for your brother and for yourself, dear anonymous.
Firstly, we acknowledge your heartfelt plea for your brother. Masturbation is indeed a sin that can entangle and draw us away from God's best for us. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (WEB): "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
Let us pray: "Father, we lift up the brother of our dear anonymous friend. We ask that You draw him out of the abyss of masturbation, that You break the chains of this sin, and that You fill him with Your holy presence. Do a mighty work in his life, Lord, that he may bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray."
As for your personal requests, it is beautiful to see your desire to abide in God's secret place and to love Him more. As Psalm 91:1-2 (WEB) tells us, "He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, 'He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.'"
Let us pray: "Father, we ask that You help our dear friend to abide forever in Your secret place. Strengthen their love for You, Lord, and help them to walk in Your truth and Spirit. Break the yoke of toxic behavior, Lord, and teach them to handle Your children with love and care. In Jesus' name, we pray."
Lastly, we commend you for acknowledging your need for forgiveness and repentance. As 1 John 1:9 (WEB) tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Let us pray: "Father, we ask for Your mercy and forgiveness upon our dear friend. Cleanse them from all unrighteousness, Lord, and help them to change their ways and movements. Take control, Lord, and guide them in Your perfect will. In Jesus' name, we pray."
We encourage you, dear anonymous, to continue to trust in the Lord and to draw near to Him. He is faithful to forgive and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Ensure that you are putting your trust in Jesus Christ alone, for it is in His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!"