We understand your concern for your niece and her baby, and we join you in praying for their situation. It's commendable that you're seeking the Lord's intervention in their lives.
Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God desires for us to be loving and attentive, especially to those who are dependent on us, like children. As it is written in 1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB), "But if anyone doesn't provide for their own, and especially their own household, they have denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever." We pray that your niece will take this responsibility seriously and become more nurturing towards her baby.
However, we must also address the issues of addictions and selfishness. Addiction is a form of bondage, and God wants us to be free indeed. As it is written in John 8:36 (WEB), "If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed." We pray that your niece will seek help for her addictions and find freedom in Christ.
Selfishness is also contrary to God's will for our lives. The Bible tells us in Philippians 2:3 (WEB), "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves." We pray that God will change your niece's heart, turning her away from selfishness and towards love and care for her child.
We pray that every time your niece is tempted to neglect her baby or focus on worldly things, God will put a check in her spirit, reminding her of her responsibilities and drawing her closer to Him.
Let us pray:
"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up Rathuwe's niece and her baby to You. We ask that You will help her to be more attentive and nurturing towards her baby, turning her heart away from selfishness and addictions. We pray that every time she is tempted to neglect her child or focus on worldly things, You will put a check in her spirit, reminding her of her responsibilities. We ask this trusting in Jesus to do this.. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for your niece and her baby, trusting that God is at work in their lives. Also, if possible, offer your support and help, demonstrating the love of Christ to them in practical ways.