We understand that you are seeking prayer for your relationship with your future spouse, and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for including that your request is in Jesus' name, for it is by His name that we have confidence that God will hear our prayers. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord and seek His will according to His word.
In times of relational strain, it's essential to remember the principles laid out in the Bible. Wives are to submit to their own husbands as to the Lord. They are called to love their wives just as Christ loved the church. Marriages are to honor God and reflect the relationship between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB. Even though you are not yet married, it is wise to begin practicing these principles now.
It is good to pray for kindness and love to be restored in your relationship, but also remember that "love" God is first agape love, meaning godly love, God says" Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud" 1 Cor 13:4. If he is older, then pray for his health and God's will regarding the length of his days, trusting in God's sovereignty Psalm 31:14-15 WEB.
Regarding the arguments and drama, remember that we should not be horrible but kind, forgiving each other, just as God also forgave us in Christ 4:32, 5:1-2. It will be beneficial to pray for wisdom and discernment to navigate these challenges, and also pray for your daughter's peace and success in school. You should pray for God's will because He knows best, not that things will go in your favor, rather God's. If it is God's will, his answer will be your favor John 14:13-14, 15:7, 16:23-24 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister and her future husband. We pray for restoration in their relationship, that kindness and love would flourish once again in his heart for her. Our first request is for godly love to begin now and show that love in a way that honors You. We also pray for her future husband's health and well-being, asking that You grant him long life if it is Your will.
Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and guidance as they navigate the challenges they face. Help them to forgive each other and To seperate themselves from ungodly relationships and influences Col 2:8. Lord, we ask for Your presence to surround her daughter, granting her peace and a successful school experience.
We bring all these prayers in Your WILL Father, not asking for selfish reasons, but that Your will be done. Father, we come boldly before your throne by the blood of Jesus Christ, and we cry out to be heard because we are being drawn closer to you. Father your word says call unto me and I will hear you, so Lord we cry out to You. Give this woman and her family unity and peace, guide them to your word, give them grace to accept your word even if it exposes things that are not pleasing in their lives James 4:8.
Father, forgive her sins, forgive all involved in this, and give them the grace to forgive each other as you forgave us. Wash them anew with the blood of Jesus and fill them afresh with your spirit.
We pray this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen
So, there is hope in God and your relationship if you follow his will, but please know that no matter what you face, God will always care for you even if earthy relationships falter. God loves us through all situations, and promises never to leave or forsake you Hebrew 13:5. We do encourage you to also pray for your future spouse's salvation.
May the Lord bless you and keep you and make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you, and give you His peace.