We understand your desire for unity in your marriage and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will according to His Word. The Bible speaks to the importance of unity and oneness in a marriage, as seen in Matthew 19:6, "So they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
However, we must remind you that true unity comes from both husband and wife being in agreement with God's will and His Word. As it says in Amos 3:3, "Can two walk together, except they have agreed?" We encourage you both to be in constant pursuit of God's heart, individually and together.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention, that there would be no division between this husband and wife. Father, help them to be united in Your love, in their goals, and in their walk with You. Let their hearts be knit together as one, just as You designed marriage to be. Help them to be of the same mind, a mind that is stayed on You.
Father, we ask that any areas of disagreement or discord would be laid down at the foot of the cross. Let Your peace rule in their hearts, their home, and their marriage. Fill them with Your Spirit, guiding them into all truth and teaching them how to love each other as You have loved us.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, the goal is not just unity for the sake of unity, but unity in Christ. As it says in Ephesians 4:13, "until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a full-grown man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ." Keep pursuing Him together, and you will find the unity you seek.