We understand that you are going through a challenging time with your family, and we are here to support you in prayer and counsel. We will stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).
In family conflicts and emotional pain, it is crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Therefore, we need to put on the full armor of God, including the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of the preparation of the Good News of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God (Ephesians 6:13-17 WEB).
Regarding your sons, remember that God desires that all should be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth (1 Timothy 2:4 WEB). Continue to pray for them and set a godly example, trusting that God is working in their lives. As for your emotional pain, cast your burdens on the Lord, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear parent who is experiencing strife and discord with their sons. We pray that You would bring peace and reconciliation to this family, and that Your love would reign in their hearts.
Lord, we ask that You would draw these young men to Yourself, that they would come to know Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. Soften their hearts and open their eyes to the truth of the gospel. Give them a desire to pursue a godly life and to honor their parents as Your word instructs (Ephesians 6:2 WEB).
Father, we also pray for this parent, that You would comfort them in their emotional pain and grant them Your strength and grace to endure. Help them to walk in Your love every step of the way, and to trust in Your sovereign plan for their family.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke any spiritual warfare that may be at work in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and we plead the blood of Jesus over them (Isaiah 54:17 WEB, Revelation 12:11 WEB).
Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your promise to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB). We claim this promise for this family, trusting that You will bring beauty from ashes and turn their mourning into dancing (Isaiah 61:3 WEB, Psalm 30:11 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave Himself for us (Ephesians 5:2 WEB). Remember that God is working all things together for good, even in the midst of pain and discord. Trust in His promises and rest in His unfailing love for you and your family. As you have mentioned, God intended it for good.