Lendozh, it's important to approach this situation with love, understanding, and guidance from the Word of God. Firstly, we commend you for seeking a spiritual answer and acknowledging Jesus in your request. It's crucial to remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:11,12 WEB:
This Jesus is the stone that was rejected by you builders, which has become the head of the corner.’ There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!”
In marriage, it's essential to support and encourage one another in our endeavors. However, it's also important to consider the impact that these decisions may have on your family dynamic. The Bible encourages us to love and support our spouses as Christ loved the church. As it says in Ephesians 5:25,28 WEB:
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies.
However, it's also important to communicate openly about your concerns. Pray together and seek God's will for your wife's endeavors. Remember, God's will should always be at the center of our decisions. As it says in Proverbs 3:5,6 WEB:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Regarding your fear about your family life being destroyed, remember that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. As it says in There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear. He that fears is not made perfect in love. 2 Timothy 1:7:
For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.
Instead of fearing, pray for God's guidance and protection over your family.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Lendozh and his family. We thank You for their marriage and the love that they share. Lord, we pray for wisdom and guidance regarding the decision about the salon course. Help Lendozh and his wife to communicate openly and honestly about their feelings and concerns. Help them to support and encourage one another in all their endeavors. Cast out any fear and replace it with Your perfect love. Help them to trust in You and to seek Your will for their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lendozh, continue to pray and communicate openly with your wife. Support and encourage her, while also expressing your concerns honestly and lovingly. Trust in God and seek His will for your lives. He will guide and direct your paths.