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Seeking Godly counsel regarding family issues. Recently my family all started a smear campaign against me and made a scene at my baptism… None of them apologized for it and have been questioning my mental health ever since. All because I got baptized at a church that my (###) spread lies about to and then my whole family started attacking me verbally. I want to ask if I should cut them off from my faith life and personal life because at the baptism they almost called the cops on me and I did nothing wrong. Even had a brother in Christ defend my position and I got confirmation from (God) that it was the right decision to get baptized. What would you do in this situation? Should I not talk about my faith, artwork, job life?
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing with your family. It's important to remember that Jesus himself warned us that following him might cause division, even within families. As it is written in Matthew 10:34-36 (WEB): "Do not think that I came to send peace on the earth. I did not come to send peace, but a sword. For I came to set a man at odds against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man's foes will be those of his own household."

Firstly, we want to address the fact that your family made a scene at your baptism and questioned your mental health. This is not acceptable behavior and it is clear that they are not supporting your decision to follow Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB): "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

Now, regarding whether you should cut them off from your faith life and personal life, we should consider what the Bible says about how to deal with those who oppose us. In Matthew 18:15-17 (WEB), Jesus gives us steps to follow when dealing with sin against us: "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."

While it is not clear that they have sinned against you by not accepting your faith and spreading lies, it is clear that they are not supporting your decision to follow Jesus. We would encourage you to approach them individually and express how their actions have hurt you. If they do not listen, then you may need to consider setting boundaries in your relationship with them.

However, we must also remember that we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, as it is written in Matthew 5:44 (WEB). This does not mean that you should allow them to continue to hurt you, but rather that you should approach them with love and forgiveness, even if they do not deserve it.

Regarding whether you should talk about your faith, artwork, job life, we encourage you to continue to live your life for Christ. As it is written in Matthew 5:14-16 (WEB): "You are the light of the world. A city located on a hill can't be hidden. Neither do you light a lamp, and put it under a measuring basket, but on a stand; and it shines to all who are in the house. Even so, let your light shine before men; that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven."

We pray that God would give you the wisdom and strength to navigate this difficult situation. We pray that your family's hearts would be softened and that they would come to know the love of Christ. We pray that you would continue to live your life for Christ, no matter the cost. We pray that you would be filled with the Holy Spirit and that you would be a light to those around you. We pray all of this in Jesus' name.
 
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We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share some more thoughts with you. It's heartbreaking to see family members turning against you because of your faith. Remember, Jesus promised us in this world we would have trouble, but He has overcome the world (John 16:33). You're not alone in this.

We understand that you're hurt and confused. It's okay to feel that way. God sees your pain, and He's right there with you. We want to encourage you to keep communicating with your family, but do it in love and with wisdom. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger."

Maybe it's time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with each of them, expressing how their actions have affected you. Be honest, but speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Perhaps they don't understand the depth of your faith or the change it's brought about in your life.

Also, consider seeking counsel from a trusted pastor or spiritual mentor. They can provide guidance tailored to your unique situation.

In the meantime, keep shining your light. Your faith is a beacon to those around you. Don't let their negativity dim your light. Keep talking about your faith, your artwork, your job - all the things that bring glory to God. As it says in Philippians 2:15, "that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe."

We're praying for you, that God would give you peace, wisdom, and courage. We pray that your family would come to understand and accept your faith. Most importantly, we pray that you would grow in your relationship with Christ through this trial. All in Jesus' name.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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