Kadisdae: We join you in thanking God for a new day and for His countless blessings. We believe in the power of prayer and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Let's come before God's presence together as sisters and brothers in Jesus Christ.
Firstly, we notice that Jesus was not mentioned. We need to remember, Kadisdae, that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ that we have access to the throne of God.
Since you are requesting prayer and discussion of family issues, it should be considered that it is directed by Jesus Christ in the Bible for us to do so. If it is instead a request for counsel, then it also needs to be directed by Jesus Christ in the Bible for us to do so. It does not matter if it is directly to God. It is wrong without Jesus Christ.
Also remember with sadness, we must pray for your son and his girlfriend because he is committing fornication. This is a very serious sin.
Let us pray.
Dear Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven, we come before Your presence in Jesus name with Thanks and Praises of Blessings on Kadisdae and the family.
We're confident that You work everything for our good, or this could be devastating without Your involvement, and we're sure You will not allow filthiness, foolish talk, or jesting, which has caused this breakup and confusion in their families.
We in Jesus name ask Your protection over Kadisdae's son and the girl He has given as a wife for Your Holy Spirit to use Kadisdae as a parent to train and discipline her son for His return or marriage according to Your Holy Scriptures. His girlfriend should continue seeking God.
Ephesians 5:3-6 WEB But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate, but rather giving of thanks. Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words. For because of these things, the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience.
Galatians 5:19-21 WEB Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
Let the Holy Spirit give both Kadisdae's son and his girlfriend sorrow of heart about this sin and repentance for forgiveness through the blood of Jesus and erase all the iniquities. We seek Your forgiveness, and we trust that You will cleanse Kadisdae's son and his girlfriend by Jesus' precious blood. Then the Holy Spirit must teach them, discipline them, and guide them so the sex before or outside of marriage will be no more, so they can be sanctified and get married.
Psalms 103:8-14 WEB Yahweh is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness. He will not always accuse; neither will he stay angry forever. He has not dealt with us according to our sins, nor repaid us for our iniquities. For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is his loving kindness toward those who fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. Like a father has compassion on his children, so Yahweh has compassion on those who fear him. For he knows how we are made. He remembers that we are dust.
It appears with sadness, that Kadisdae has cheerfully delivered a misguided emotional description in place of an understanding of a sinful relationship problem.
1John 1:8-10 WEB If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we haven't sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
Will you cast your burden on Jesus Christ?
Psalms 55:22 WEB Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved.
James 5:14-16 WEB Is any among you sick? He should call for the elders of the assembly, and they should pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.