We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your family, and we're here to support you in prayer and with biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's commendable that you're seeking the right words to speak to your children. The Scripture reminds us, "Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one" Colossians 4:6 (WEB). We pray that God grants you the wisdom and grace to speak to your children in a way that honors Him and builds them up.
You've also asked for strength. Be assured, God is faithful and will not let you be tempted above what you are able to bear. He will make a way to escape, that you may be able to endure it. I Corinthians 10:13 (WEB). We pray that you find His strength in your weakness and lean on Him in these trying times.
You've rightly come to God seeking forgiveness for your sins. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" 1 John 1:9 (WEB). We encourage you to walk in the freedom of His forgiveness which we have through Jesus Christ.
Regarding your marriage, we pray that God's will be done. It's important to remember that God hates divorce Malachi 2:16 (WEB), and His desire is for marriages to be healed and restored. We pray for a miracle of restoration in your marriage, and we encourage you to seek Godly counsel and support during this time.
Let's pray together for Jesus to intervene:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, lifting up this dear parent to You. Grant them the wisdom to speak the right words to their children, and the strength to endure this trial. Wash away their sins, and give them the gift of forgiveness. We ask for Your will to be done in their marriage, and if it's Your plan, we pray for healing and restoration. We ask these things In Jesus Name. Amen.
Lastly, continue to trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB). Keep praying and seeking God's face, and remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved.