Family Grief

[Anonymous]

I am reaching out to you for a prayer request as I know how powerful prayer can be when multiple people are praying over a situation. I have a family member that is an in law. They have been an in law for the past almost 20 years. About 2.5 years ago the family became divided over basically money. This in law has done a lot of things to different family members and caused a lot of division on her own. What was once a close family she has wreaked havoc on. My mom apparently became the worst mother in the world and didn’t raise my brother good enough she should have done more she shouldn’t be there so much for my sister and I she hasn’t been a good enough grandmother to their kids she shows other grandkids more attention etc. Same with my father. It took her almost 13 years to accomplish it but she’s succeeded in convincing my brother his parents are terrible people/ grandparents. She’s hurt my sister and I beyond belief with her ability to pro create easier than others. Example is my sister was miscarrying one time and she knew and did her own pregame announcement the next day (before my sister could even get through her miscarriage) she tried to do the same to me with another reveal at children’s birthday party. Knowing about the years and years of infertility that I had gone through and she was supposed to be one of my best friends rather than pull me aside to let me know that she was about to make a rather big announcement when it was just the two of us she chose to let me find out with everyone else which is fine. She wanted it to hurt me. Then pulled me aside and apologized and said she should have went with her heart and told me separately but my sibling told her I would be ok. I wasn’t the only one who thought it pretty hurtful my other siblings and niece (whom she befriended after that to try and hurt others) all came to myself to make sure I was processing ok. Which I was because I know that you can not disagree with Gods blessings for someone else. My time was coming. It did about 7 months after that and I was given my miracle baby boy who is almost 2 now. Her own twin sister was the one who was hateful to her about her 5th pregnancy not myself or my family. when I made my announcement, she left what I thought to be a really hurtful comment disguised as a congratulations. In my heart enough was enough and I removed the comment. She deleted and blocked me from social media which was more than ok. Later to unblock so I in turn blocked her so I don’t see or know anything that goes on in her life. Don’t care. She strategically has tried to have a “relationship” with every one of my older 3 kids at some point in time which we are not allowed to even speak to her younger kids and she has brainwashed them to think everyone else made these decisions and we don’t care about them. But my kids were older so I couldn’t not allow them to talk to them. First she tried with my younger step son using a toddler to try and manipulate him to not coming to my baby shower for his little brother but to come to her kids birthday party that she had on the same exact day as my one and only shower. He still managed to do both but that wasn’t what she had wanted. Then she sought out my daughter which has told me many things she heard her tell her kids about not mentioning us or speaking our names. It lasted a short time with my daughter until she decided to try and make a false Facebook post with accusations against me again using a kid and Jesus. That I chose money over family and hope it was worth it. I got an inheritance that all my siblings got. Thats not me choosing money. Then she never spoke to my oldest son until she learned his then girlfriend was pregnant. She used her to reel in bc she’s a photographer and knew she want professional pictures (I personally would pay for photos before I was made to get involved in a family feud I knew nothing about but not a young girl) So she started doing her pictures. She did her maternity pictures and of course that open the door to a relationship. She just had to foster it a little bit longer. Then, of course she did the newborn pictures and continue to take their son’s pictures. She does more free pictures for them than she’s ever done for anybody else in her family. Ever. This was to continue to grow the relationship because I believe in her heart, she thought that I would be upset or offended my DIL chose to have a relationship with her. I could not care less. As long as my kids knew how to not put themselves in the middle of the family drama and stay neutral I would continue to do my own thing over here. This of course could not be done because that was not the sole purpose in seeking out the relationship. My name has been brought up on many occasions, especially when there’s too much alcohol involved. I have a two year-old son who is very innocent and all of this and who is the one paying the ultimate price. Because of my daughter-in-law’s relationship with my sister in law she has began saying things that could only come from her which has continued to cause more division. We once had a great relationship and our boys played together and I never spoke of my brother and his wife because I didn’t need to. Now it’s to the point that when I send out an invitation for a two-year-old’s birthday party because in the moment they were with other family members. (which are not even really their family.) She chose to not even respond to the invite. My prayer request with knowing all the above is to pray my family out of the claws of the enemy. For innocent eyes to be opened to what is really taking place and the real reasons behind it. There is one common denominator in this entire families division and it’s one person. She disguises herself extremely well as a Christian. However these are just short examples of things that have happened over the years. Christians that truly love Jesus do not do these things. I am asking for prayer as it is my witness. I ask that truth be revealed. That reconciliation can take place. I ask that the Lord would reveal hearts and motives. And I ask that my son would be shielded from any unnecessary hurt. Thank you

 

[Articles]

We understand the deep pain and division that has been caused within your family, and we stand with you in prayer, asking for God's intervention and healing. Let us align our hearts with the Word of God and pray together.

Firstly, we are reminded of the warning in Romans 16:17-18 (WEB), "Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them. For those who are such don’t serve our Lord, Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by their smooth and flattering speech, they deceive the hearts of the innocent." It is clear that the actions of this family member have caused immense harm and division, and we pray that God will open the eyes of those who have been deceived.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this family that has been torn apart by deceit and manipulation. Lord, You are the God of truth and justice, and we ask that You expose the darkness that has been at work within this family. Open the eyes of those who have been blinded by falsehoods, and bring them into the light of Your truth.

Lord, we pray for reconciliation and healing. We ask that You soften the hearts of those who have been hardened by bitterness and resentment. Help them to see the error of their ways and to turn from their divisive actions. Bring unity and love back into this family, as it is Your will for us to live in harmony with one another.

We also pray for protection over the innocent, especially the young ones who are caught in the midst of this strife. Shield them from any further hurt and confusion, and surround them with Your love and peace.

Father, we ask that You reveal the true motives and intentions of those who have caused this division. Expose any false pretenses, and bring to light the actions that have been hidden in darkness. Help this family to find true healing and forgiveness in Jesus' name.

We also pray for the one who has caused this division, that they may come to a place of repentance and seek Your forgiveness. May they turn from their destructive ways and find redemption in You.

Finally, we ask for wisdom and discernment for those who are seeking to navigate this difficult situation. Guide them with Your Holy Spirit, and give them the strength to stand for truth and righteousness.

We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

In addition to our prayers, we encourage you to continue to stand firm in your faith and to seek God's guidance in all that you do. Remember the words of Ephesians 6:10-12 (WEB), "Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."

Trust that God is faithful and that He will bring about justice and healing in His perfect timing. Stay rooted in His love and truth, and continue to be a witness for Him in the midst of this trial.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about the pain and division your family is going through. It's heartbreaking to see how one person's actions can cause so much harm and hurt. We want you to know that we're here for you, standing with you in prayer.

We've been praying for your family, asking God to intervene and bring healing. We've been reminded of the warning in Romans 16:17-18 about those who cause divisions and stumble others. It's clear that this family member's actions have caused immense harm, and we pray that God will open the eyes of those who have been deceived.

We've been praying for:

- Truth and justice to prevail, and for God to expose any hidden motives and actions.
- Reconciliation and healing, asking God to soften hearts and bring unity back into your family.
- Protection over the innocent, especially the young ones, asking God to shield them from further hurt and confusion.
- Wisdom and discernment for those navigating this situation, asking God to guide them with His Holy Spirit.

We encourage you to keep standing firm in your faith and seeking God's guidance. Remember, our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:10-12). Trust that God is faithful and will bring about justice and healing in His perfect timing. Stay rooted in His love and truth, and continue to be a witness for Him.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for your family. Please let us know if there's anything else we can do to support you.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Muani]

I pray for this in Jesus Name Amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Anandh]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.