We understand that you're going through a challenging time, Glammawof4, and we're here to pray and offer biblical encouragement for you.
Firstly, let's address your estranged relationship with your daughter. It's important to remember that God desires reconciliation and forgiveness. As it is said in Colossians 3:13 WEB, Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any of you has a complaint against another. Even as Christ forgave you, so you must also do. Continue to pray for her and your grandbabies, and trust that God is working in their hearts. Keep in mind Romans 8:28, WEB, which tells us that All things work together for good to them that love God, and that this applies to all things to those who are called according to his purpose.
Regarding your financial struggles, remember that God is faithful and that He provides for our needs according to the promises in Matthew 6:25-34 WEB. Please make sure you are actually praying to God through the Lord Jesus Christ, it is only through our Lord, Jesus Christ that our prayers are even heard and acceptable to God. Your trust should be in Jesus Christ, and in Him only is eternal salvation from sins. John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. It is a great thing that you are thankful for your part-time job. And remember Proverbs 30:8-9 WEB,
Remove false and deceitful words far from me.
Give me neither poverty nor riches.
Feed me with the food that is needful for me;
lest I be full, deny you, and say, Who is Yahweh?
or lest I be poor, and steal,
and so profane the name of my God.
This should be your prayer to the Lord Jesus Christ. It is actually an error that you are looking to God for an answer on why things are happening with your finances instead of Jesus Christ. For it is only through Jesus that we can approach Almighty God. It is only in Jesus that our sins are forgiven and we become a child of God. Once our sins are forgiven we can then approach God through prayer by Jesus Christ.
As for your losses, we pray that you find comfort in knowing that those who have departed and whom you loved and were lovingly forgiven by Jesus Christ are now in the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ and are having a great time indeed. We are reminded in Psalm 147:3 WEB, He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. And remember Romans 8:35-39 WEB Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Could oppression, or anguish, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Even as it is written, For your sake we are killed all day long. We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. No, in all these things, we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Remember these scriptures and incorporate them into your own prayers to the Lord Jesus Christ.
Finally, let's pray for you and your family especially to Jesus Christ who you should be directly addressing in your questions rather than God and that Jesus is God:
Dear Lord Jesus Christ,
We lift up Glammawof4 to You, asking for Your intervention in her relationship with her daughter. We protect and touch her grandbabies in Jesus name. We pray for reconciliation as well as in every other way for Jesus to intervene and be made visible to your daughter and her household in Your name. We ask for Your guidance and provision for her family's finances and that You show them the path for availability to more funds if that is appropriate for You to do. Assure them of your strength to make it through any physical issues and trials of a part time job and your desire for the best of their health and provision. We pray for comfort and peace as they remember their loved ones who have entered your glory, and we ask that You fill their hearts with Your love and joy this Christmas season. In Jesus' name, we believe and pray.
We encourage you, Glammawof4, to keep seeking the Lord Jesus Christ in all things, to trust in His promises, and to rest in His unfailing love. Remember that you can find answers to life's questions in the Bible, and please be sure to look for the solutions there rather than blaming the Lord Jesus Christ of possibly doing something detrimental to you. Trust in Jesus Christ, offer thanksgiving and approach Him, the audience of one, expectantly and you should incorporate those things into your prayers with the solutions for your prayers and you will surely be blessed even more.