We are deeply saddened to hear about the turmoil in your family, Yatamor. Let's bring your situation before the Lord, seeking His healing and restoration.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that anger is a dangerous emotion when left uncontrolled. Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB) tells us, "Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." It's crucial for your husband to understand that his uncontrolled anger is not only harming his relationship with you and your son but also grieving the Holy Spirit.
The actions described, including physical harm, are not in line with the teachings of Christ. We firmly rebuke such behavior. Colossians 3:19 (WEB) instructs husbands to "love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." Your husband needs to seek forgiveness from both you and your son, and also seek help, possibly professional counseling, to manage his anger in a godly manner.
To your son, we encourage him to forgive, as Christ forgives us. Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) says, "Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." However, his feelings and safety are valid, and he may need some time and reassurance before he can feel safe again.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, pleading for Yatamor's family. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to mend the emotional wounds caused by this outburst. Help her husband to see the error of his ways, to seek forgiveness, and to find healthy ways to manage his anger. Protect and comfort their son, Lord, and help him to forgive as You forgive us. We ask for Your intervention, God, for You to restore peace and unity in their home. Remind them all of Your unfailing love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Yatamor, we encourage you to stand strong in your faith and trust in the Lord. Remember, God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Keep praying and seeking God's will for your family.