Family and the guy I’m currently talking to

[Anonymous]

It’s been almost 2 months with my immediate family being broken. My mother and father both are hard headed and stubborn it’s been hard seeing this on a daily and trying to live my life and be happy especially today being thanksgiving we are still broken. My dad made empty promises to try for this family but this is where are at now and I want to request prayers. I’ve been praying to the lord and I know sometimes if may feel as if he isn’t listening or answering our prayers but that’s how it’s been feeling I thought that once a couple is married they shouldn’t ever stop trying even when it gets hard . My parents stopped trying I love them both but I just pray for the lord to strengthen their communication style and be more open and resolves things together and want to want to be together and keep trying for the family not just that but for their love. I pray that I’m able to see a normal family once again and even closer to eachother. I also would like to request a prayer about this man I have been talking to for over a month we first clicked right away he’s the one who matched with me on a dating app and I matched back I wasn’t even thinking to match but I ended up just doing it next thing you know we are conversating on there then adds me on insta then immediately asks for my number and told eachother our intentions and he told me I bought his eye right away because of my values and my personality and all that but there’s been a bit of a problem and I can’t tell if this is god telling me to slow down and be more patient and let things unfold cause he could be the one for me and gods also trying to teach me patience but with god bringing him into my life cause he could be the one for me. I hope but I can’t tell cause I deal with anxious atttachment style and I over think things a lot I pray my lord also strengthens this relationship of us getting to know eachother . When we first got to know eachother he told me he had no problem doing long distance for the right one and told me he would be moving to a different part of California which he is currently busy with and should almost be finished but seems like when he got the keys the communication dropped more than half but he told me that’s how he is when he has priorities and us being in the talking first stages that he tends to focus on those things but would love to resume when he finishes up and put full effort on me cause he know that’s how it should be but the expectations that were layed out to me in the mean time haven’t been fulfilled with him and it was just to communicate here and there and seems like I’m always the one reaching out and I shouldn’t be chasing I’m having a hard time not to reach out cause my anxiety gets in the way but I just pray everything he’s saying is true and genuine he says it is but I obviously can’t trust him alll the way even tho I think I feel it’s genuine. I pray the lord can strengthen this relationship and strengthen me and speak to me that he wants me to slow down cause this man is genuine and does want to get to know me once finished. This man kinda made me start liking him because when he was consistent he’s been very gentle , patient , and understanding and he is the type to go with the flow . In the name of the lord Jesus I pray this man’s true intentions are real and can be for me, amen.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family and in your new relationship. Let's bring these concerns to the Lord in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance from the scriptures.

Firstly, let's address the situation with your parents. God's will is for husbands and wives to never stop trying to work on their marriage, even when it gets hard. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "Therefore they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." We echo your prayer that your parents will endeavor to strengthen their communication, be more open with each other, and work towards resolving their differences. We pray for their love for one another to be rekindled and that they would remain committed to each other and to the family. We also pray for you, that God would strengthen you during this time and remind you that He is always there for you, even when it feels like He is silent. As it is written in Psalm 139:7-10 WEB, "Where could I go from your Spirit? Or where could I flee from your presence? If I ascend up into heaven, you are there. If I make my bed in Sheol, behold, you are there! If I take the wings of the dawn, and settle in the uttermost parts of the sea; Even there your hand will lead me, and your right hand will hold me."

Concerning your relationship with this man, we would be glad to pray for God's will in this situation. We pray that God would give you discernment and peace, and that He would reveal His will for this relationship. We do point out that he should not be "the one" but a potential for whom you might be thankful. It is too early to know if he is someone to consider marrying. Do not excitedly chase.

As we are concerned for you both, has the word boyfriend or girlfriend been used to refer to one another of courtship? It is early, but looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend rather that a potential spouse is a good way to find heartache and lead to sin, so it is better that only courtship with marriage as the goal be considered. We also deep anxiety and overthinking feelings to God in prayer. As it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." It is also concerning that communication has not been happening and it seems as if he has not been pursuing you. Bring this to God in prayer, and also ask Him to give you His strength to set boundaries and wisdom to know when it is time to move forward or move on.

This man claims to be very far along with you, but there are concerns about the genuineness of his commitment to this relationship. Life happens and there is grace for those times when it is hard for people to keep up with relationships, but it bothers us that he is not pursuing you. We would warn you though that he have not stated he has any intent on getting married to anyone. Also, be careful that he is being honest about this intentions. He could be using a line on you with the moving story. It may even be true but there may be someone else wherever he moved to. Actions speak louder than words and it is concerning that he is not communicating with you.

We also pray the Lord be the role model for everyone in this. Since there have been empty promises in your family and now there are empty promises it seems in this relationship, it is important to see if the promise maker is trustworthy. But, it is really only Jesus was faithful and true. Jesus did not come with empty promises, but is the true promise keeper. As it states in Hebrews 10:23 ESV "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful." Please take a look at John 14:6 ESV "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Please also take a look at John 3:16-21 ESV, especially verse 16 ESV 16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. We suggest that this man and your family do not even come close to this. You are revolving around people and their issues. It is hoped that you will seek Jesus first.

We place these situations in God's hands, trusting that He will work all things together for good. We encourage you to continue to seek God's will in all things, to trust in Him, and to live in a way that honors Him. Let's pray.

Heavenly Father, we lift up our dear sister and her family to You, asking that You would intervene in their situation and bring healing and restoration to their family. We pray that You would soften their hearts towards each other and help them to communicate effectively and lovingly with one another. We also lift up the man that she has been talking to, asking that You would reveal Your will for their relationship. We pray that You would give our sister discernment and peace, and that You would help her to trust in You and to set healthy boundaries. We ask all of these things in Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're right there with you, praying for your family and this new relationship. It's tough when loved ones are at odds, and it can be confusing when new connections bring uncertainty. But remember, God is always by your side, even when it feels like He's quiet.

For your family, we're asking God to mend those broken bonds. We're praying that your parents will find the strength to communicate openly and honestly, to listen to each other's hearts, and to work together to heal. We're also praying for you, that you'll find peace and comfort in knowing that God is with you, even in the midst of the storm.

As for this man you've been talking to, we're praying for clarity. We're asking God to give you wisdom and discernment, to help you navigate this relationship with patience and understanding. We're also praying that this man will be truthful and genuine in his intentions, and that God will guide both of your hearts towards His will.

And hey, it's okay to feel anxious. It's a big world out there, and it's normal to have questions and fears. But remember, God is in control. He's got a plan, and He's working all things together for your good. So, let's trust in Him, and let's keep praying.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Berndoth]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family and in your new relationship. Let's bring these concerns to the Lord in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance from the scriptures.

Firstly, let's address the situation with your parents. God's will is for husbands and wives to never stop trying to work on their marriage, even when it gets hard. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "Therefore they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." We echo your prayer that your parents will endeavor to strengthen their communication, be more open with each other, and work towards resolving their differences. We pray for their love for one another to be rekindled and that they would remain committed to each other and to the family. We also pray for you, that God would strengthen you during this time and remind you that He is always there for you, even when it feels like He is silent. As it is written in Psalm 139:7-10 WEB, "Where could I go from your Spirit? Or where could I flee from your presence? If I ascend up into heaven, you are there. If I make my bed in Sheol, behold, you are there! If I take the wings of the dawn, and settle in the uttermost parts of the sea; Even there your hand will lead me, and your right hand will hold me."

Concerning your relationship with this man, we would be glad to pray for God's will in this situation. We pray that God would give you discernment and peace, and that He would reveal His will for this relationship. We do point out that he should not be "the one" but a potential for whom you might be thankful. It is too early to know if he is someone to consider marrying. Do not excitedly chase.

As we are concerned for you both, has the word boyfriend or girlfriend been used to refer to one another of courtship? It is early, but looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend rather that a potential spouse is a good way to find heartache and lead to sin, so it is better that only courtship with marriage as the goal be considered. We also deep anxiety and overthinking feelings to God in prayer. As it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." It is also concerning that communication has not been happening and it seems as if he has not been pursuing you. Bring this to God in prayer, and also ask Him to give you His strength to set boundaries and wisdom to know when it is time to move forward or move on.

This man claims to be very far along with you, but there are concerns about the genuineness of his commitment to this relationship. Life happens and there is grace for those times when it is hard for people to keep up with relationships, but it bothers us that he is not pursuing you. We would warn you though that he have not stated he has any intent on getting married to anyone. Also, be careful that he is being honest about this intentions. He could be using a line on you with the moving story. It may even be true but there may be someone else wherever he moved to. Actions speak louder than words and it is concerning that he is not communicating with you.

We also pray the Lord be the role model for everyone in this. Since there have been empty promises in your family and now there are empty promises it seems in this relationship, it is important to see if the promise maker is trustworthy. But, it is really only Jesus was faithful and true. Jesus did not come with empty promises, but is the true promise keeper. As it states in Hebrews 10:23 ESV "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful." Please take a look at John 14:6 ESV "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Please also take a look at John 3:16-21 ESV, especially verse 16 ESV 16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. We suggest that this man and your family do not even come close to this. You are revolving around people and their issues. It is hoped that you will seek Jesus first.

We place these situations in God's hands, trusting that He will work all things together for good. We encourage you to continue to seek God's will in all things, to trust in Him, and to live in a way that honors Him. Let's pray.

Heavenly Father, we lift up our dear sister and her family to You, asking that You would intervene in their situation and bring healing and restoration to their family. We pray that You would soften their hearts towards each other and help them to communicate effectively and lovingly with one another. We also lift up the man that she has been talking to, asking that You would reveal Your will for their relationship. We pray that You would give our sister discernment and peace, and that You would help her to trust in You and to set healthy boundaries. We ask all of these things in Jesus' name, Amen.

As for the part of him moving I didn’t state all context behind and maybe that’s why you’re pointing out the things you might be concerned about but it’s indeed true he’s moving he’s showed me the home at the very beginning and even know where it’s located and told me it’s with his mom and mother is even In the background and has stated that’s I’ll see the home and meet mother if things go well & has stated that he knows every guy says this but I’m the only one talking to him and if anything he once questioned me if I’m healed from my past and my ex and I said yes . There’s more context but moral of it all I pray he truly is just how he is focused just as he said wanting to finish the move and continue us and give full effort as he mentioned . So pray for this in the name of the lord amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that you have invited us to stand in agreement with you in prayer, especially during this challenging time with your family and as you navigate this new relationship. It has been a few days since you shared your request, and we hope that you have seen God's hand at work in your situation. If your family has begun to reconcile and communicate more openly, or if the relationship with the man you've been talking to has grown stronger and clearer, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others who are also waiting on God's answers to their prayers.
If, however, your family remains broken or if you are still uncertain about the man you’ve been getting to know, please do not hesitate to post your request again as a new one. Let us continue to stand with you in prayer, believing that God is working behind the scenes, even when it feels like He is silent. We trust that He hears your prayers and that He is faithful to His promises. May God bless you, protect you, and guide you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. Let us keep praying together, trusting that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. In Jesus Name.