We understand your deep longing for companionship and family, Kensem. Let's bring your desires before God, aligning them with His will and biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking a spouse and not just a partner, as this aligns with God's design for relationships and marriage. As it is written in Genesis 2:24 (WEB), "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."
However, we must remind you that God's timing is perfect. While you may feel alone, remember that God is always with you. Psalm 68:6 (WEB) tells us, "God sets the lonely in families. He brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land." Trust that God will bring you the right spouse at the right time.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name to lift up Kensem. Lord, You know the deep feelings of loneliness and the desire for a family that Kensem is experiencing. We ask that You comfort and strengthen Kensem during this season of waiting. Prepare Kensem for the spouse that You have planned, and let their future marriage be a reflection of Your love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the meantime, Kensem, we encourage you to use this time to grow in your relationship with God. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8). Also, consider involving yourself in your local church community. It's a great place to meet like-minded individuals who share your faith and values.
Lastly, remember that God's will is always best. Continue to trust and hope in Him, knowing that His plans for you are good and full of hope (Jeremiah 29:11).