We understand your struggle, ###, and we're here to help you in Jesus' name. The Bible tells us that "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).
Firstly, we want to address the issue of your eyes wandering. This is a form of temptation, and it's important to remember that God is faithful to provide a way out. It's not uncommon for past traumas to manifest in this way, but remember, "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB).
We must also address the fact that your message does not mention Jesus Christ. It's only through His name that we have access to God, for "there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to call upon His name and trust in His power to overcome this struggle.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ###. Lord, You know the struggle they face with their eyes and the shame they feel. We ask for Your forgiveness if there has been any sin in this matter. We claim Your promise that You are faithful to provide a way of escape. Please heal any past trauma that may be contributing to this issue. Give ### the power of self-control through Your Holy Spirit. Help them to fix their eyes on You, Jesus, so that they may be transformed by Your grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, ###, to memorize and recite Scripture whenever you feel tempted. Here's a verse to start with: "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things" (Philippians 4:8, WEB).
Keep your eyes focused on Jesus, and He will help you overcome this struggle.