We understand your deep longing for companionship and the desire to start a family, and we want to lift your concerns to the Lord. Beginning with establishing a healthy marriage and family through the guidance of the Lord.
Firstly, we want to emphasize the importance of seeking God's will in all things, including relationships. The Bible tells us in Psalm 37:4, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
We should also trust in the Lord's timing, as it is always perfect.
However, we want to remind you that God desires that we seek Him first, and all other things will be added according to His will. As it is written in Matthew 6:33, But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
It is also important for us to remember the importance of aligning our desires with biblical principles. As you long for a spouse, and children, remember the words of Psalm 27:14, Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh.
In your prayer request, you mentioned seeking someone who sees, accepts, appreciates, and helps you feel safe, valued, heard, and loved consistently. These are all qualities that God desires for us to experience in a marriage relationship.
We will pray for God's revelation of 'the one' He has prepared for you, and for both of you to meet this month. However, we should also remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Be aware that God might have someone for you that you have not met yet.
As we pray for you, we also want to encourage you in love. Be aware that if you are feeling this loneliness to the extent that you are, that you should examine your relationship with God and make sure you are not feeling lonely because you are not getting enough of Him. If you are born again, you are united to the Lord and He is always with you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in Jesus name, lifting up our dear brother in prayer. You know the deep longing of his heart for a godly spouse and a family. We pray that You will reveal to him the one You have prepared for him when the time is appropriate.
We ask that You will cause the two of them to meet and talk this month if that is your will. We pray that You will give him the desires of his heart as he delights himself in You.
Help him to seek You first and to trust in Your perfect timing. Help him to be patient and wait for Your will to be done in his life.
In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to trust in the Lord and to seek His will for your life. Be aware that it is our job to be obedient to the Lord and to wait on Him to bring about His will. He is faithful and will do it. Be strong and take courage.
