Extreme emotional pain

[Bardrondi]

God does not answer my prayers. I have persisted for 4 years and most ardently the last 2 years. Narcissistic boyfriend has caused me EXTREME emotional pain and damage, it feels like he has killed my spirit. He has given me bare minimum to no effort, lied, manipulated, humiliated me, cheated, betrayed me and abandon me and shown NO REMORSE while feeding me breadcrumbs of love, to keep me strung along, after 10 years of bending over backwards and being good to him. I tried to forgive his infidelities but he kept seeing another woman behind my back, and then becomes angry when I catch him He promised me marriage and kids, and now I’m almost 40 and I’m unmarried and he has left me for the other woman he was seeing behind my back. He has made me feel so replaceable, if a new woman can easily take him away like that. I gave him everything and appreciated his low effort. He even describes me as thoughtful, beautiful, kind, … everything nice. But by his actions you can see he has treated me like his WORST ENEMY. As I have treated him like my Best friend and Love. I have been begging God to save our relationship for years, to take the veil off his eyes from his cruel behaviors and bring him to repentance and to make amends with me. Instead my prayers feel in vain as things only have gotten worse and worse. My heart is broken, because I really loved him. He’s not a bad person, but he has treated me horrifically when I should be the one he treats the best as his girlfriend of ten years. I only found out about his infidelities these last two years, but he’s been treating me poorly for years mixed with kindness. Leaving me confused. And even when I gave him a chance to fix things, he chose the other woman he barely knows over me! He absolutely killed my spirit. I have been asking God to heal him of his narcissism and selfish behaviors and for God to bring him to true repentance for his actions towards me and to make amends and to appreciate and love me the way God would want a man to love me. And for God to give me the grace to truly forgive him too! I want for us to have a healthy new start together that will give God glory. Only God can heal and save this broken relationship. But nothing, no matter how much I pray and I have prayed a ton! I have even prayed for a new relationship with someone else, if God wants that. But nothing. The only men that God sends me are ones that I’m not even remotely attracted to and I would like to at least be attracted to the person I am with. I know the inner man is what is most important, but truthfully, I cannot be authentic if I don’t even feel any outward attraction. Meanwhile my boyfriend was able to find multiple women that he fancied and now this new one that he replaced me with, after over ten years of my faithfulness, patience, kindness and love. And this other woman enjoyed him choosing her over me, even though she knows we had an over ten year relationship. Fully knowing about me, she kept coming back to him any time he invited her! He is a dentist so that might have something to do with it. But she enjoyed taking him from me. I wish God would show him that the grass isn’t greener anywhere else and what a good woman I am. Instead I feel I have wasted all these years and my time for nothing. Suffering, and hoping he chooses me. Just for him to abandon me. How can he choose a stranger over me? And treat me like a back up option? I have been waiting for marriage for so long and now I’m almost 40 and I have nothing. The other woman is also almost 40 too so she probably feels great to have taken him from me leaving me with nothing and her with everything I have been working hard for the last ten years making sacrifices for him during dental school and throughout our relationship. HELP ME, I am in SO much pain. God does not respond!! Heal me. I want love and marriage. And as crazy as it sounds, I wish that this broken relationship could be saved and made healthy for the glory of God. I really do love him.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please guide, please protect, please heal. Please send help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you. Amen.

 

[Ethea]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up Bardrondi in prayer. Lord, You see the deep emotional pain and damage caused by her relationship. For years, she has persisted in prayer, seeking Your intervention and healing. We ask in Jesus' name that You bring comfort and peace to her broken spirit.

Father, we pray for her boyfriend, who has caused her so much hurt through lies, manipulation, and betrayal. We ask that You remove the veil from his eyes, revealing the truth of his actions and leading him to genuine repentance. May he come to understand the depth of the pain he has inflicted and seek to make amends.

Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon Bardrondi's heart. Restore her spirit and fill her with Your love and peace. Help her to see her worth and value in Your eyes, and to know that she is deeply loved by You. Give her the grace to forgive, even when it seems impossible, and to find strength in Your presence.

We pray for a future filled with hope and joy for Bardrondi. Guide her steps and lead her to the path You have prepared for her. Surround her with supportive and loving people who will uplift and encourage her.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." - Matthew 11:28

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always respect, obey and honor You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[J.B.]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you. Praying for healing and wisdom and much strength for you. May our Heavenly Father also soften your partner’s heart. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God loves you and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen~

 

[ארכּא]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Bardrondi]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up Bardrondi in prayer. Lord, You see the deep emotional pain and damage caused by her relationship. For years, she has persisted in prayer, seeking Your intervention and healing. We ask in Jesus' name that You bring comfort and peace to her broken spirit.

Father, we pray for her boyfriend, who has caused her so much hurt through lies, manipulation, and betrayal. We ask that You remove the veil from his eyes, revealing the truth of his actions and leading him to genuine repentance. May he come to understand the depth of the pain he has inflicted and seek to make amends.

Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon Bardrondi's heart. Restore her spirit and fill her with Your love and peace. Help her to see her worth and value in Your eyes, and to know that she is deeply loved by You. Give her the grace to forgive, even when it seems impossible, and to find strength in Your presence.

We pray for a future filled with hope and joy for Bardrondi. Guide her steps and lead her to the path You have prepared for her. Surround her with supportive and loving people who will uplift and encourage her.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." - Matthew 11:28

Thank you so much for the beautiful prayer!