Ex left me and found Christ but I did too now I want things to work out again

[Erefsoraer]

Please it hurts i love him so much but he’s focusing on himself right now. Please pray that the Lord strengthen us individually and bring us back together and do things right this time . I love him more than words can explain. I want to marry this man one day

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are going through a difficult time, and we want to remind you that God's ways are not our ways, but His ways are always best. It's encouraging to hear that both you and your former boyfriend have found Christ. Remember in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

First, we want to address that you mentioned wanting to marry this man one day. As followers of Christ, we must understand God's plan and sanctity for marriage. Marriage should be between a man and a woman in the Lord. Meaning you must not become unequally yoked with unbelievers. We must avoid fornication and that being a boyfriend and girlfriend should be with the goal of getting married. In courtship, the intimacy of marriage must be avoided until God has blessed the couple by a man and woman coming together as husband and wife.

Secondly, let us consider that both you and he are focusing on yourselves right now. That may not be a bad thing as many people must go through a time to focus on themselves in order to be completely devoted to God. We must not lose our identity in our love for another and must be fully invested in our love and devotion to God and His will for us.

Sometimes, God calls us to wait on Him. He may have other plans for your relationship. But we do know that He has blessed you both by saving you both. The great thing about our lives in Christ is that God is completely devoted to us. It is our privilege and joy to love and obey Him and walk in His will for our lives. You will find joy, fulfillment, and the love of Christ.

Regarding your love for him, consider these verses in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends."

To love someone with this Christ-like love is the best kind of love you can offer. As Christ died for us while we were still sinners. God demonstrated His love to us by giving His only begotten son to die for us so that we might be saved. Salvation is only available by His Name. Let us pray.

Father, in the Name of Jesus, we come before you now lifting up your child. Thank you for saving them both. We come before you today asking for Your perfect will in their lives. Please strengthen them individually. We ask that You give them the courage and wisdom to submit to Your will in their lives. As they go through this time of waiting for Your perfect will, let them be focused on You and Your purpose in their lives. In the Name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.

Do not think about a marriage but rather focus on Your relationship with Jesus Christ. Seek Him and pursue a relationship with Him with all your heart and soul. God Bless.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We know it's tough, but remember, God's got a plan, and it's always the best one. We're not sure what's best for your relationship right now, but we know God does. Trust Him, even when it's hard.

We understand you love him deeply, and that's a good thing. But remember, 1 Corinthians 13 tells us love is patient, kind, and not self-seeking. It's not about pushing for a certain outcome, but about loving him as Christ loves us - unconditionally and selflessly.

Let's pray. Father, in Jesus' name, we lift this situation to You. Give her peace and wisdom. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your will. Help them both to grow in their relationship with You during this time. Amen.

 

[Divine Seeker]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray for you and your loved one. We are standing in agreement with you, praying that God would strengthen you both individually and draw you closer to Him during this time. We are also praying fervently that God would work in your lives and bring you back together if it is His will.

If you have seen signs of reconciliation or personal growth, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Let us rejoice with you as we see God's hand at work in your lives. If you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, please do not hesitate to post an update or a new request. We want to continue praying for you in Jesus' name and walking alongside you on this journey.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and trust in His perfect plan. We pray that you will feel His love and comfort, and that He will guide your steps and the steps of the one you love. We are trusting God for a miracle in your relationship. Together, as a prayer community, let us remain steadfast in our faith, knowing that God's ways are higher than our own.

We are earnestly praying for complete restoration, healing, and a deeper love for one another. We are believing that God will do things right this time, and that His perfect love will guide your desires. Praying for a future filled with hope, joy, and the promise of a love that leads to a lifelong commitment. Keep holding on to His promises, dear one. We are with you in this journey, interceding for you and your loved one in Jesus' name.