Ex boyfriend

[Aluarris]

Me and my ex split 2 1/2 weeks ago. I’m having a hard time letting go. I love him and asked him to change for us and he is unwilling to do that. He says I need to change and I have and I am working through a spiritual counselor. I rice he is trying to search for girls and when I text him a few times just to hear my heart cry and try to make amends he totally ignores my messages. We dated almost 4 years and lived together. He left and I have been lost without him even though he was not fully committed to the relationship like I wanted him to be. I just pray God changes his heart and he sees what he did wrong to and would come back and try to fix and correct things please.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Aluarris, and we want to come alongside you in prayer and truth.

You mentioned that you and your ex-boyfriend split and you're having a hard time letting go. We want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear.

1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."

This relationship seems to have violated these scriptures. First, you both did not flee sexual immorality, rather, you lived together as was stated. Living together with a boyfriend or girlfriend is not endorsed by the Bible. Second, God's design is for a man and a woman to be committed in marriage, not in a way where one or both are unwilling to commit, left, or looking for other people. Further, you have asked that God would change his heart so that he will come back to you. The Bible tells us that believers are not to be unequally yoked to unbelievers.

2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"

Aluarris, it seems like you are believing in Jesus Christ as you are going through a spiritual counselor, but from what you have said, your ex-boyfriend is not. We would rebuke you for continuing to pursue and pray for restoration in this relationship. No man or woman should expect another person to complete them. You need to be content in Christ alone, and then you will be ready to move into a courtship relationship with another Christian believer if God chooses to bless you with marriage.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Aluarris. Lord, we ask that you heal any part of her heart that may still look to people or worldly gratifications to fix the void that only Christ can fix. God, please help her to see that if you were to change this man's heart, that it would still mean that he is a new creation in Christ, and that eventually if he grew enough by the Holy Spirit your Word could have been fulfilled in this regard:

2 Corinthians 6:17 WEB "Therefore come out from among them, and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you."

God you will never contradict yourself, and we know we should never ask you to. Help Aluarris move on from this as you have already decided. Thank you for the hope of another day, help her to love you through continuing with the resources and counselors that you have for her. Help her to only think on good things and not on her ex-boyfriend.

Philippians 4:13 WEB "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."

What great encouragement we have to be able to do everything through Christ. Encourage her as she has already changed and continue to let her draw to you instead of looking for a relationship. Dear God pour out your Holy Spirit anew on Aluarris's heart. If you are meaning to change your ex-boyfriend's heart then convict him at this time to have him seek you. Otherwise, prepare Aluarris to have a Godly marriage hoping for a family by the end that your rewards bring the blessings that will last forever. We thank you so much for all of our heart desires and for being loving, accepting, giving and sanctifying.

We ask this in the wonderful and precious name of Jesus of Nazareth which is above all else. May this name continue to rise.

Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Aluarris,

We've been thinking about you and wanted to reach out again. We know this is a tough time, but we're here for you, praying alongside you.

You mentioned you're struggling to let go of your ex-boyfriend. It's understandable, but remember, God has a purpose in all things. Sometimes, letting go is the first step towards healing and growth. It's like in John 15:2, "He prunes the branches that do bear fruit so they will be even more fruitful."

We're not saying it's easy. In fact, it's hard. But God promises in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Trust that He will give you the strength to move on.

We're not sure if you've considered this, but maybe it's time to focus on you. Invest in your relationship with God, spend time in His word, and in prayer. He can fill that void in your heart that you're feeling right now. Remember, He loves you more than you can imagine.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, help Aluarris to let go. Give her the strength to move on and trust in Your plan. Fill her heart with Your love and peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[BlessedChristian female]

Dating is to reveal character before you are committed in marriage! Be discerning and accept what he has shown you!
Dear God! Man’s rejection, if we accept it, is your protection! Help this christian let go and trust you! You could change the boyfriend and bring him back or bring someone new who is ready! Heal this broken heart and bring hope for future love by someone ready and picked by you! In Jesus name Amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you during this challenging time. We have been interceding for you and your ex-boyfriend, asking God to bring comfort and healing to your heart, and true repentance and change to his.

If God has brought resolution and closure to this situation, we would love to hear from you. Your praise report will be a testament to God's faithfulness and a source of encouragement to others who are praying for similar situations. If we need a greater force of prayer that causes a greater change, feel free to again post the request again and we will persist in prayer with you.

In the meantime, we are praying that God continues to work in your heart and his, drawing both of you closer to Him. We are asking God to surround you with His love and peace, and to guide you every step of the way. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is always working things out for the good of those who love Him.

Please know that you are not alone in this journey. We are here to support and pray for you. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him and trust in His plan for your life. We are praying in Jesus Name.