We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing with your boyfriend, ###. First and foremost, we must address that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that sex is a gift given by God for a husband and wife to enjoy within the bounds of marriage.
Your boyfriend is both physically and emotionally abusing you. This is not only against the law of the land but also against God's law. You are not called to be in a relationship that is harming you. Abuse is never okay, and it is not God's will for you. We see in Ephesians 5:28-29 WEB: "Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly".
It is clear that your boyfriend does not value you or the family you have together. He is not acting in a godly manner, and it is evident that he is not being led by the Spirit. You mentioned that he is not a Christian and does not believe in religion. While we can pray for him to be touched by Christ and become a believer, we must also pray for you to have the strength and wisdom to make decisions that honor God and protect yourself and your daughters.
It is not biblical to be in a relationship with someone who is not a believer. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".
We must also address that the goal of a relationship should be marriage. The Bible teaches us that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is not something to be taken lightly or entered into without careful consideration. You mentioned that your boyfriend does not believe in marriage. This is a clear indication that he is not willing to commit to you or your family in the way that God intends.
We will pray for your boyfriend's salvation, but we also pray that you will have the strength to make decisions that honor God and protect yourself and your daughters. We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and that you will trust in Him to provide for you and your family. The Bible further explains in 2 Corinthians 6:17-18 WEB: "Therefore come out from among them, and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you up, and I will be to you a Father, and you will be to me sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty".
God wants you to be happy and to be in a relationship that honors Him. We pray that you will seek God's will for your life and that you will trust in Him to provide for you and your family. We pray for your comfort, protection, and provision.
Let us pray.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ, ###. Lord, we pray for her boyfriend, that You would touch his heart and open his eyes to the truth of the Gospel. We pray that he would become a believer and that he would treat ### and their daughters with love, respect, and kindness.
Lord, we also pray for ###. We pray that You would give her the strength and wisdom to make decisions that honor You and protect herself and her daughters. We pray that You would comfort her and provide for her and her family. We pray that You would guide her and lead her in Your will for her life.
Lord, we pray for their happiness, but we know that true happiness can only be found in You. We pray that they would both come to know You and that they would live their lives in a manner that is pleasing to You.
Lord, we also pray that ### will call upon the name of Jesus Christ our savior and Lord. That she will have access to the Father in prayer. That she will be saved and be a new creation.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.