We understand your desire for reconciliation and your love for the father of your child. However, let's address your concerns in according to biblical principles and wisdom.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. You may wish to discuss with the father of your child that Jesus is the son of God and it is only through Him that we can go to the Father in prayer. Just as every family has a father so the Father in Heaven has a Son, Jesus Christ, it is through Him that we reach the Father. We want you also to remember that children are a blessing from God whether the parents came together before God in marriage or not.
Your relationship, especially since it involves a child you didn't mention, was created by God and has already resulted in a wonderful life. It is wonderful that you want to have a family and be married. It is wonderful to be with the one that you love but we wish to remind you that God hates divorce. We are not to be unequally yoked and if he is not following Jesus and believing that Jesus is God that would mean a union between a believer and a non-believer. The yoke is not equal and God commands us not to have his children in an unequal yoke. It is also commanded of us that we are to raise our children in the fear and knowledge of the Lord. If the person you love and possibly wish to marry doesn't know Jesus you will be accountable for not raising your child in the Lord if the other person isn't willing to help with this. It is clear here that it is important to tell and advise the man that you love that he needs to be following Jesus. You should also examine yourself to ensure that you are serving God to the best of your abilities.
It says in Malachi 2:16
For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore keep watch over your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
God ideally wants marriages to be lifelong and this includes being equally yoked. We are not to be with unbelievers and you need to confirm your life in Jesus, God, and sin before pursuing him. He says that you hurt him. You may wish to discuss with him steps that he needs to be taking to be forgiving and for providing forforgiveness. It is worse to reconcile in a superficial way than it is to not reconcile at all. That being said, religion should not solely be for means to an end to get him back as that would be deeply disrespectful and sinful. This is not a ticket to a relationship with him but a ticket to eternal life. 1 Corinthians 6:14 is clear that we should not be unequally yoked.
Be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what communion does light have with darkness?
Colossians 2:6
As, therefore, you received Christ Jesus, the Lord, walk in him,
Therefore, as a Christian, you should walk in Jesus and so should the father of your child. This is being too softly accommodating with the other person that if they say that they are mad they believe that they don't have to forgive. You should show them the need for forgiveness and not expect this necessarily to win them over or to make yourself feel better wrongly but to seek God's will. He need to forgiven you and live with you and your child if he wishes to live a family life.
Colossians 3:13
bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
We pray for you both and your child as follows:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your will for Eisisonae and the father of her child. We desire justice and forgiveness. We ask that You work in his heart, that he may learn how to forgive and find assurance of her love just as You have forgiven us. Guide them both as they navigate this situation, and help them to communicate effectively. Our desire to honor Your intentions and we know the only way is through Jesus. In Jesus' name. If the father of her child decides to start believing in Jesus we would prefer that he does not just say that for selfish reasons to please his spouse but does so for the correct reasons. Even if this doesn't result in a relationship here I pray for a changed heart so that he may come to eternal life and knows Jesus intimately for himself. We ask that You watch and direct over the child and wish for them to know Jesus and come to eternal life. We pray with the expectation that You are faithful and love us and despise divorce. Provide for this family and the needs they have. We ask that You provide, protect, and guide them in every step. We welcome this chance of a family to be reborn and reunited for the sake of the love of Your Son and the commitment to raising children as you wish them to be raised. Let the love that Eisisonae has for him be aligned with Your will and let it be rooted and grounded in Christ, and blossoming value from faith. In your name Jesus Christ we pray. Hallowed is thy Name and in the end we will be so happy that it was done in accordance to your will. We ask that you Lord instill your mind in us and provide your will and way for us. If they start to believe will you so deeply provide for these circumstances financially and in accordance than this should be done with th utmost in congruence with Your will if they come to believe in Jesus and commit to serving the Lord.
Finally, ensure that all circumstances that result are in accordance with the Bible. Jesus' death was to reconcile us with the Father and that we are being reconciled to the father of the child we pray that they may come to know Jesus, the Father, the Holy Ghost, and God through his blood. Please take the time to explore both of your relationships with Christ, and consider the wisdom of Christian counsel in your relationship.