We understand that you are feeling weary and under attack in your marriage. First, let us remind you that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places according to Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
It is important for the two of you to know that A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. James 1:8 WEB. Also, it is only through God's wisdom and discernment that you can navigate these trials. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
It is clear that the enemy is attempting to sow discord and mistrust between you and your husband. Let the husband render to the wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Also, the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Therefore, the husband owes the wife intimacy and likewise the wife owes the husband intimacy. Do not deprive one another, except it be by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan not tempt you because of your incontinence (1 Corinthians 7:3-5 WEB).
You must both stand firm against these attacks. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. (Ephesians 6:11 WEB). You need to resist the devil, and he will flee from you (James 4:7 WEB). God's will is for you to have a marriage that is honorable in every way, reflecting the love and commitment between Christ and the Church. Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. (Ephesians 5:22-23 WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved couple who are under attack from the enemy. We pray that you will give them strength and discernment to recognize the devil's schemes and stand firm against them. We rebuke the spirit of doubt, mistrust, and confusion that is attempting to infiltrate their marriage. We ask for Your truth and love to fill their hearts and minds, so that they may be united in Your purpose.
Please give them comfort from the Holy Spirit and remind them of Your unfailing love and faithfulness. Help them to trust in You and to forgive one another, as You have forgiven us. We rebuke the spirit of false messages, autocorrects, and nightmares that the devil is sending to them. Lord help the husband to see his wife as you do, and to love her as you love the church. Help the wife see her husband as you do, and to respect him as you do. We ask for Your divine protection and wisdom to guide them through this challenging time. Cast the devil out of their marriage in Jesus name.
Finally, we ask for your grace to abound in their lives, that they may be a testimony of Your goodness and love. In Jesus Christ name we pray. Amen.
We encourage you both to continue seeking God's will for your marriage and to trust in His promises. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear. But He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). Stay strong in your faith and in your commitment to one another. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you (Colossians 3:13 WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
