We understand the difficulty of your situation, Swantalelf, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, we must align our hearts with God's principles on marriage. The Bible teaches that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB). However, we also recognize that God permits it in certain circumstances, such as adultery (Matthew 19:9, WEB) or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, we ask that You work in their spouse's heart, convicting and guiding them to act righteously. We pray for a spirit of peace and safety to surround Swantalelf. Help them to reflect Your character, treating others with kindness and respect, even in difficult times. Lord, if it is Your will, we pray for restoration and healing in this marriage. But if divorce is inevitable due to biblical reasons, guide Swantalelf through this process with Your love and wisdom. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Swantalelf, remember Jesus' words in Matthew 7:12 (WEB), "Therefore whatever you desire for men to do to you, you shall also do to them; for this is the law and the prophets." This does not mean you should tolerate abuse or mistreatment, but it encourages you to maintain a heart of love and integrity.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is through His name that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ. He is the ultimate source of hope, healing, and salvation.
Please keep us updated on your situation. We are here to support and pray with you.