We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, but we need to address several things in your request. First, we notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is through Jesus that we have access to God, as it says in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Now, let's address your situation. We see that you're struggling with a past relationship. We are not to have control to make someone do something that is not in accordance with God's will. Also, believers are instructed to flee from sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
You are to go through a time of healing and forgiveness, trusting that God has a plan for your life. Isaiah 61 is clear about the mission of Christ, to among other things heal the brokenhearted and proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound. Isaiah 61:1 (WEB) The Spirit of the Lord Yahweh is on me; because Yahweh has anointed me to preach good news to the humble. He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and release to those who are bound. Remain in the Word and pursue righteousness. Though this is a painful time it is a promise that joy will come, Isaiah 61:7 WEB Instead of your shame you shall have double; and instead of dishonor they shall rejoice in their portion: therefore in their land they shall possess double; everlasting joy shall be to them.
If you are in a current relationship and having sexual relations while not married this is fornication which is sin and against the will of God Colossians 3:5-6 WEB
ut to death therefore your members which are on the earth: sexual immorality, uncleanness, depraved passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry; for which things' sake the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience.
Appropriate relationships should involve the goal of looking for a spouse rather than looking for a boyfriend or a relationship for something to do. To be simply dating will leave a path of broken hearts and baggage that carries into future marriages. God's design is lifelong marriage. The world has distorted desire and sexual fulfillment but to have Biblical desire it must come under the authority of God. To regain purity, Christians need to have their desires and their lives aligned with God's Will. The sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman is outlined in the Bible, as a representation of Christ and the church. Times of singleness are to be spent focusing on God and growing with him instead of trying to "fix" being single. Psalms 10:17 WEB: Lord, you have heard the desire of the humble. You will prepare their heart. You will cause your ear to hear,
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before you to seek Your Will. Lord, we pray for forgiveness and your wisdom in this situation. We lift Anonymous up to You, asking that You heal their broken heart and help them to trust in You HE who is mighty to save, and who is a husband to the widow and a father to the fatherless. You Lord know what they need and desire and we pray you reveal that. No matter the circumstances, You are faithful and just. You will help them again, as a warrior in his youth. We trust in You and you will direct our paths Give us your peace, In Jesus Name". Amen.