Steven Bobb, we hear your cry for a calmer, more controllable life and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will together. In this world, we are not promised a life free from tribulations, but God assures us that we can have peace in Him. Let's remember the words of Jesus in John 16:33 (WEB), "I have told you these things, that in me, you may have peace. In the world you have trouble; but cheer up! I have overcome the world."
Firstly, we want to encourage you to fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. It is only in His name that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. If you haven't already, surrender your life to Jesus Christ and trust in Him as your Lord and Savior.
Now, let's address the chaos you're experiencing. We are reminded in James 1:2-4 (WEB), "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you fall into various temptations, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. Let endurance have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." Instead of being overwhelmed by the situations, consider them as opportunities for growth and strengthening of your faith.
We also encourage you to seek God's wisdom in every situation. In James 1:5 (WEB), we are told, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." Trust that God will guide you through the unfamiliar situations and complications.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother Steven Bobb. Lord, he is overwhelmed by the chaos of life, and we ask that You bring order and calmness into his circumstances. Give him the strength to endure and grow through these trials. Open his heart to Your wisdom and guidance. Help him to keep his eyes fixed on You, trusting in Your goodness and sovereignty. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Steven, continue to trust in the Lord. He is faithful and will see you through the storms of life. Remember, with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26, WEB). Keep holding onto Him and His promises.