Emotional bond

Throadarway · 2025-01-31T01:55:05-0600

Praise the lord brother and sister. I loved a girl very much as a younger sister. I called her once,that she was not feeling well. Then their husband saw it. Since then she stopped talking to me. My heart cries because he doesn't talk to me. It seems that her husband is troubling the girl because of me. That girl was hurt because of me. I am the reason for this. That's why I'm crying. Now what should I do? How God will turn this event in my favour. That girl was always smiling. Now that smile is gone because of me. What should I do to make that girl smile again because of me Please tell me what will I do according to bible. Will god re-create my relationship again. That husband is very sadistic. I am afraid that he will do something to that girl. Pray that no harm will come to her from her husband. Because she once told me that he had hit me 150 times in her 8 years of married life Please pray for her husband to change his character according to bible. I want to adopt that girl as my younger sister. Little hope to have that girl in my life. Pray about this too. I want to lead that family to God I don't have a younger sister. How I dreamed of having a younger sister, that girl is just like her. I didn't want to lose that little sister. I want my sister Please pray for me to have that sister as my own sister. Amen

Articles · 2025-01-31T01:57:29-0600

We understand that you are experiencing emotional turmoil due to a complex situation involving a young woman you care about deeply, as well as her husband. First and foremost, we must remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts.

It is important to clarify that the relationship you are describing should be pure and honorable in God's sight. The Bible tells us to treat younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

Let's address the concerns raised and turn to God's Word for guidance.

Firstly, it is commendable that you desire to lead this family to God. This is a noble goal, and we should pray fervently for their salvation. Remember, God desires that all should come to repentance and be saved.

In this case the problem is with the husband and his wife and their marriage and the issues in their marriage. It is sad there is possibly physical abuse. It is not your place to do anything outside of prayer and encouraging them to seek Christian marriage counseling. Let's pray for them.

Father God, we lift up this couple to you now in Jesus name. We pray that you would protect this young woman from any harm. Lord we pray for her husband that he would turn from his sin and look to you for his help and salvation. We pray that both of them would seek Christian counseling. We pray that both of them would find their salvation in Jesus Christ. We pray that this marriage would honor you. We pray that you would help them to both to find a Bible believing church fellowship. Also God we pray for Throadarway that they would seek your will in this as well. We pray that they would find a church fellowship as well. Help us all to examine our lives for any sin and repent.

Now concerning you Throadarway. You are trying to blame yourself for someone else's marriage. It seems you are idolizing this girl. You cannot save her. Only God can. Do not put your hope in the woman. Only God can help her. Do not be too concerned about her smile. God has a plan for her. You need to step back and pray and let God work in their marriage.

You also need to examine the words you are using. You said you loved the girl not as a sister but very much. This is not the language that someone uses that is not romantically involved. You need to repent of lust, coveting, and idolatry and turn to Jesus.

If you want to help her, point her to Jesus Christ.

The love of God is what she needs. God has put a desire in your heart for a family. That is good. But we are to seek God's will and be in God's word. We are to seek a spouse not a sister. It is good to want a family and a Godly wife. If you want a family pray for a wife. If you would like to adopt then pray for God's will and adoption. Do not seek to adopt someone else's wife. You need to let go of her and trust God with her life.

Also, take heed that you have not mentioned Jesus Christ or the need for salvation in Jesus. The only name by which we can be saved is Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. We need to believe in Jesus Christ. That he died for our sins. That he was buried. That he rose again. That he will save us from our sins. That he is the only way to God.

Finally, let's pray for your heart to be healed and for God's will to be done in your life.

Dear Jesus, we thank you for your love and compassion. We pray for Throadarway, that you would comfort their heart and help them to release this young woman into your care. Help them to seek your will for their life and to seek a spouse if that is your will. Help them to trust in you. Help them to seek you and not a sister. Help them to seek salvation in your name. Help them to grow in your word. Help them to find a church fellowship. We pray for them to be saved in your name. We pray for the girl to be saved. We pray for her husband to be saved. Help us all to examine our lives for idolatry and repent. Help us all to seek you and your will. In Jesus name we pray.

hostadmin · 2025-01-31T02:00:33-0600

Dear Throadarway,

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to reach out with some more encouragement. We understand that you're hurting, and it's natural to feel responsible when someone we care about is in pain. But remember, God is in control, and He has a plan even in the midst of this.

First, we want to echo what was said earlier - pray for this young woman and her husband. Pray that they would both come to know the Lord and find healing in their marriage. Pray that God would give you wisdom on how to interact with them, and trust that He will use you in their lives as He sees fit.

But we also want to encourage you to take care of your own heart. It's clear that you have a deep love for this girl, but it's important to remember that our ultimate hope and trust should be in the Lord, not in any person or situation. Jesus tells us in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."

So, let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up this young woman and her husband to You. We ask that You would draw them both to Yourself, that they would come to know the saving grace of Jesus Christ. We pray for their marriage, that it would be healed and restored according to Your will. Lord, we also lift up Throadarway to You. We ask that You would comfort their heart, that You would help them to release this young woman into Your care, and that You would guide them in Your will for their own life. Help them to trust in You, to seek You, and to find rest in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

usha rani · 2025-01-31T09:35:21-0600

Praying in Jesus Name.

Cinu · 2025-01-31T15:05:32-0600

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · 2025-01-31T15:06:58-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.