Eliminate my fiancé porn/masturbation addiction

  1. Sweaxulira Sweaxulira:
    I am so sorry how did you lose faith today Cheirfourwood
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    Just when I got in the new house . I found out I might be moving or house hunting again. My son was not with me and he is with me today but he said he might not want to stay with me . I have no place to bring my cats. I have struggling this past few days house hunting. I am so tired
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Anonymous

Beloved of All
Please pray with me ....

Lord please have my fiancé get over his porn and masturbation addiction. This is really getting to me to the point where it is ruining our intimacy because he's not giving me his full potency since I'm sure that he's done it a few hours before he even tries to be intimate with me. Honestly Lord you know I feel betrayed as if he's cheating on me because he's obsessed with it. I don't want this to ruin our relationship Lord and it's really hurting me mentally and emotionally. I can't help and think that every time he's alone or in the restroom he's doing his thing and I hate it. Please have my fiancé realize every possible way how this affects us and that he should stop if he loves me. Plant the importance of seeking me if he has desires, let him know how this is not helping the relationship but rather ruining it by him being unfair. He's not a single man and he should be thinking about me too not himself. Lord you know exactly what there is to do and I need your help please grant my prayer and porn become boring to him where it plays no effect on him. In Jesus name almighty Amen  
 
This is an addiction and addicts cause others pain. I'm going to give you some very strong advice which you can take or leave but I would break the engagement over something like this. This is a form of unfaithfulness and if he is an addict then eventually it will lead to actual physical cheating which would break the marital bond.

I'm sorry but it would be almost impossible to trust a person who does this and it would be tormenting for you which is not what real love is all about.
 
May God bless you with increased wisdom and discernment.

Respectfully, your fiance IS a single man - you are not married yet. I would highly suggest that you reconsider marrying a man with such a serious addiction; it may get worse once he has the security of marriage. He has to see that he has a problem; you can't do this for him.

Also, please re-read your request. You have posted a prayer for God to allow your fiance to "seek you for his desires" so you can have better sex. Perhaps pre-marital sex is the problem here. I'm not judging you at all, just suggesting that you reconsider if your prayer is alignment with God's will for you.

Blessings.
 
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