We are saddened to hear about this situation and will pray for this family, that they may find peace, understanding, and a resolve to care for their elderly mother with love and compassion. We must remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Firstly, we must address the issue of the elderly lady calling her family members fat. This is not kind or loving, and it is important to remember that our words should always be used to build others up, not tear them down. As it says in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We pray that the Lord will soften her heart and help her to speak words of kindness and encouragement to her family.
Regarding the daughter who is hurt and does not want to care for her mother anymore, we pray that the Lord will heal her wounds and give her a heart of forgiveness. We understand that caring for an elderly parent can be challenging, but it is also an opportunity to honor and serve them in their time of need. As it says in Exodus 20:12, "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you."
We pray that the other siblings will step up and help care for their mother, that they may bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ. As it says in Galatians 6:2. We also pray that the family will seek out support and resources to help them in this challenging time, whether that be from other family members, the church, or professional caregivers.
Finally, we want to remind the family that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We pray that they will put their faith and trust in Jesus, that He may guide them and give them the strength and wisdom they need to care for their mother with love and compassion.
Let us pray.
Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up this family to You. Lord, we pray that You would soften the heart of the elderly lady, that she may speak words of kindness and encouragement to her family. We pray that You would heal the wounds of her daughter, that she may find it in her heart to forgive and continue to care for her mother. We pray that the other siblings would step up and help, that they may bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ. Lord, we pray that this family would put their faith and trust in You, that You may guide them and give them the strength and wisdom they need to care for their mother with love and compassion. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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